Do you still swoon your wife and treat her like the sexy morsel you used to treat her like? Do you bring her gifts and spontaneously take her on dates? Do you take a little longer to hug her and hold her hand when you are out together? Pushing sex will turn anyone off but swooning and romance without being pressured makes wanting it a lot more attractive.

GREED...loss of common sense allowing the want for more to take over.

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This is quite a dilema. I guess you have to go back to the beginning of your relationship and realize what it was about this man that captivated you. What was it about him that melted you? Do you make the effort to date again,hold hands, touch him whenever he within reach?Do you dress up and fix yourself up anymore to catch his eye and tell him what it is you appreciate about him? Do you do special little things for him to let him know you love him. Have you hugged him long enough to feel his heart beat against your chest and kissed him long enough to loose yourself in the kiss? When was the last time you stopped what you are doing to really listen to his day without being disinterested or distracted? I know all this has to be reciprocated by him but maybe if you start to make more an effort to love him he will make more effort in return. As far as this other past lover(I assume) You have to remember what it was that ended things between the two of you and realize those issues would still be there eventually bearing their ugly head no matter what. Is it sexually that you think about him? If so then spice up your sex with the man your with. I have to say a man is as good as his lover. This stands true in all ways in a relationship unless one of you is emotionally unplugged.

I could write a book with the things that aggrivate my kids about me. The most recent is a cutlery war I am having with them. This deserves an explanation because you all would think I'm nuts if I didn't.The boys have gotten very lazy over the years and tend not to bring out their dishes from their rooms. I have had wars over this time and time again. We had a fruit fly invasion beyond description this past summer due to it and an argument that went way overboard. I recently had to go hunt down a knife, fork and spoon to feed myself as the tray was empty as usual so I blew a biscuit. I went through their rooms and confiscated every piece of cutlery I could find, washed them, bagged them up and locked them up in my safe. Leaving only a few of each, I began to ask them to "PLEASE" locate the cutlery so I could eat. I didn't want them to know it was me who took everything. My oldest son came to me the other day and said"It really sucks not to be able to even feed myself here." I looked at him and slurped a bite of yogurt with the plastic measuring spoon. Trying not to give away that I have it all I have been using a huge serving fork and a measuring spoon for a week now to show them what it's like to not have anything to use. Do I think it will work? I have no idea, I'm just trying to prove a point, so this will be soon on the top of their annoyance list. I am now out of bowls and have one plate, two glasses and I think three coffee cups left.. So whats next to suddenly disappear? Welcome to life in the crazy house:0

Time heals all wounds isn't necessarily true. Betrayal of trust through infidelity is probably one of the most painful to get over. Essentially you rejected her as a woman and chose another to share the one most intimate part of your relationship with.Making love , having sex is the closest you can ever get and the most vulnerable anyone allows themselves to be. You can't expect in any way that she just drop the rejection and lies and simply "get over it."You have not earned any right through time for her to forgive you. I have to ask if after this was there any counselling and what did you do to begin to show her you were trust worthy?This isn't something that you just say"I'm sorry dear and I'll never do it again." This is something that you now find out that has torn her apart for years and in many ways possibly torn down how she feels about herself as a woman with you. It's sad to me that cheating can come so easy at the time, not realizing the pain caused to the one you say you love.The only thing I can say is if you really love her, use this separation as a time to work on your own self worth,get some counselling.Don't even consider meeting another woman if this is the one you truly love. Take this separation as the time to prove to her that you only desire to be with her.Show her she is worth waiting for if you think she is. Maybe this is the only way you can prove to her that you are worth her vulnerability and love. If not, it will be time to move on. Life is short and it is rare to have someone you can truly call your soul mate and trust with all your heart.

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I am sorry to see you are in a difficult situation. Have you been married a long time? Could your wife be going through menopause and not even really know whats going on herself? It's unfair to make accusations that she is having an affair. Who really knows what is going on.If you really love her maybe back away and give her space. Seek counselling for yourself so you have some support system if things don't work out well. You might even want to go as far as seeking a lawyer for advice as to how to go about things if she does leave to protect your kids and yourself.I guess it's important to get your ducks in a row and be prepared for what will come.Work on yourself and start rebuilding who you are as in many cases we loose ourselves in a relationship. Maybe start going to a gym or working out to start rebuilding some self esteem. Your kids will need you to be strong as will you for your own self worth.

Well I guess I'm an odd ball, I left a man that has lots of money, I didn't at all like a millionaire that I dated ONCE and now I am dating a man who makes less than I do. Do I care? Not on your life! I have become very independent over the last eight years and am very proud of everything I have earned over these years.Speeking for myself, it's the man , not the money that I enjoy.

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