Nothing is impossible unless you believe it is, don't EVER be a doormat, look for the solution before you accept the problem, do it right the first time...doing it twice sucks, listen to your gut feeling, your beautiful and capable,start your bucket list and be sure to have one item a year checked off, make sure you tell your family and friends that you really love them, if you think you might regret something...try another way,always look for a job doing something that you like because you will always succeed that way, love yourself, and last of all....don't be afraid of difficult times...these are the times that will show you what your capable of.

Yes I avoid her like the plague. Every time it seems I go she is putting me in for tests which I should be grateful for. I have a great doctor that is thorough but I just feel like I am wasting time someone else might need for the same tests.

You are talking about my own past story. I was madly in love with a man and out of the blue he came home one day and just announced he wasn't in love with me and left. We weren't having any problems, everything seemed great so it was a devastating shock and blow. I pined for this guy for months all the while he was out dating and having a great time moving on. One day I realized that I had made the choice to let my life go for someone who not only didn't care to be with me but was not even thinking about me anymore. This is when I lifted my butt off of the couch , joined the gym, cleaned all the things out of the house that took me back to our relationship, burned all the cards and pictures that I had held so tight. I rejoined and celebrated being a woman and started to call my friends and get going. After a few months I started to date and feel great. I was looking top notch finally and really happy to be a single woman. One day he came up behind me and asked how I was. I simply smiled brightly and he could see just how I was. That man followed me around like a lost puppy, showing up at my place claiming to be looking for the stupidest things. Not once did I let on that I too was excited to see him. I continued to go on dates and out with the girls. He would call and invite me over and out and for the most part the answer was either another night or no thanks. I remember telling him many times I was going on a date and knew he was sitting a home thinking about me alone. In the end we did end up together again and he had enough time to see he wasn't needed by me to make him really want to be with me. The thing I'm trying to say is it's when you quit hanging on and sharing those desperate vibes or sad vibes, he will begin to move on and in some cases realize that there just aren't  other women out there like you. By falling in love with who you are as a woman again gives him the chance to see who he fell in love with in the beginning. We all seem to want what we can't have. So put some icing on your cake and decorate it up until you have rediscovered the person you were before. You may even find that he really isn't the one for you after all and have had the chance to fall in love with who "You" are all over again. It's a process but it's really what you should be working on...not a relationship that someone dangles a string and like the faithful kitten you go for it everytime. Let go and get going with your love life girlfriend. Get busy and get going.

I have met the most physically attractive people that are so horrible when they open their mouth. Looks fade but character sticks with you.

spiritual, determined,independant,nurturing,giving,compassionate, passionate

I know what your feeling like in many ways. You will find that there are going to many of those cross roads in your life. It's almost as if your soul is stirring trying get you to grow. Remember growing pains as a child? They aren't the most comfortable things to go through whether it's a mental thing or a physical thing. Be careful with your decision because in many cases they are virtually irreversible. If it involves hurting someone else in the process of change, be gentle to them. Ultimately, if you don't do something you will be stuck in the middle of the road of indecision.

So sorry Mel, my prayers are that you have found that peace you wanted with your mom and that now she is in the presence of God.

I have been told to try the Credit Union by others , hopefully the bank I am trying to deal with will take us on. I don't have $50,000 to put down but more like 10%. I won't give up on this.Thanks for your thoughts , it goes a long way.

Ear wax, pretty gross and very close to the taste of tree pitch. Although I do have to say that Bucklies is also a horrible taste.

MEN...lmao...just kidding...I love the British Bull Terrior.