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I hope your right and that there is someone out there for me.I'm 53 and not looking for women that are like a trophy girl.(some young girl). I am looking for a woman that are more my age and are realistic about what is important in life,and that can be happy with what I can offer to her,like having her needs met and happy with what I can give her and not how much I spend on her. I do love to give gifts,but some base your love on how much you spend on them,and not what the gift represents. I know you understand what I'm talking about,I feel that you are a realistic person,and loves life for what it has to offer and not how much you can get materialisticly.

That's why Madonna's song "Material Girl" hit the Number 1 in the pop chart and remained there for quite some time.

You will definitely find the one you're looking for. Make sure you're generous with your time, compliments, and affection for this lucky lady!

For me,money is important only for survival in this day and age. It's hard to find a woman that is willing to be happy with the love I can give her and to take care of her the best way I can. For me that is what is important. I hope you understand what I'm saying here.

Who decides what "they need"...you or her? Could that be part of the problem? Just asking.

Not every one ;)

Proving my own point...don't use words like ever, never, always, everyone, all, etc :)

I already have plenty. I caught a catch...heh...heh. I don't live on bread and water...it's bread and wine...

I never told anyone how much I make.(and I do make enough to take care of a woman,and their needs). But I have found more women that are only looking for how much money you will spend on them (as far as expensive gifts) other then what is needed. To me it seems that it's how much you give them and not how much you love them and are willing to take care of them.

It's hard to find women who are sincere. How can I find a woman that is,and how will I know if they are?

I don't think your odd.I'm happy to hear that there are some women that are happy to be with a man's love and not what he can spend on them. I hope that someday I will be as happy as your man and find a true woman like you. A woman that loves her man for who he is. I'm just looking for love and not anything alse.

You must be a leach and all you care about in life is money. You will never have a stable life and you will die a lonely person and not knowing what TRUE love is.

Dear, I've had a lovely life full of travel...heh...heh...

Hey eggplant...guess you've been told! Gypsy just arrived and he's already upset. Way to go! haha

Well, ducka, you can love someone and they can have money, too. What's wrong with that? I don't like hopping on the back of a motorbike. It's nice to ride in comfort...

You're way off target with eggplant, Gypsy. She is happily married with a lovely family and a nice home. She does her share for her family. She has a great husband who provides for her and his family because he loves her and his family. She will die happy, I'm sure.

You know how you sound and look to me? Like a penniless beer drinker who is looking for a woman with low self esteem who doesn't mine living in a shack with nothing to her name, taking care of your lazy rear end so you can hang out with the boys and swill beer. Clean up your act and understand that women have self respect and will not live like bush hogs just because their man thinks money is not important. It is important. It takes money to live comfortably in this world. You do not need to be rich but a decent woman is going to want to at least live comfortably and not like she's living on a small monthly welfare check. I would expect that you as the man, and I'm sure a believer that the man is the head of the household, should be able to provide for the needs of the woman you bring into your life. If anyone is going to die lonely and alone it will be you unless you change your attitude about women. If all the women you meet are only looking for the big fat wallet, then you are looking in the wrong place. Lower your standards, you are looking at high maintenance women only and you can not afford them. You also do not decide what a women needs or doesn't need. Laying down the law about that will keep you alone. Get over yourself, you're not that good looking that you can get away with that kind of thinking. Looking like a worn out biker man who has spent too many good years partying will not attract the woman you think you need. You can only attract the desperate woman with that look and the chauvinistic attitude you have.

I don't know why you say the this you did, with out knowing me.You profile me by my photo and you don't even have a clue who I am you what my back ground is. Just be cause you don't like the way I look, doesn't mean that I'm a penny less beer drinker looking for low self esteem women. I asked a question and I think you didn't understand the base of it. The base is, Why do women drop you when you don't have the money to give them gifts when money becomes tight and to be able to keep the in comfort? That is when they drop me and look for a man that can give them the gifts they want.

Obviously, the women that you choose, have low standards and I think that says more about YOU than THEM!

@eggplant...I agree..really great people can also have money and then it's DOUBLE the fun, isn't it?! LOL