It is a lot more complicated then daren1 thinks. last winter I developed Thyroid problems and gained 40 lbs in 3 months. I had the thyroid removed in june but the wieght did not magically disaprear. I have to lose that the old fashioned way. I am diabled so it is difficult to do exersises.

Never assume that a large person is fat because they eat to much. there are many reasons for weight gain, and it is never easy to get rid of and the older you are the harder it is, especially for the ladies

He obviously wasn't as serious as you were. A truly serious relationship lasts way longer then 6

months. I think you dodged a bullet with this guy. You are worth far more this, let it go..........

Anyone who needs to drink to cope.

If you don't tell him, hows he going to know?

It depends on the crime. I know someone who took a leak behind a tree and will forever be on the sex offender list.  I also know of someone who  made love to a young girl  who waited for him. When she turned twentyone and he got out she married him. That was ten years ago and they are doing fine . Soul Mates. There are also people who rape babies and small children. These people should not even get a parole hearing. It depends on the circomstances. Do not condem all.

Since I live in a small town and cannot remember faces I smile and say hello to everyone. That way I don't insult anyone and the added bonas is : it;s hard to be negative with a smile on your face.

I am not Springy anymore. I am not hot as Summer anymore. I must be Autumn, cause, I'm not cold yet.

because they are too polite to grunt.

Our cemetery is located on the edge of town and when it gets full they move the fence farther into the fields on either side.  Around here there are a lot of old cemeterys located out in the country that are no longer used, like the old church fell down but the cemetery is still there. Also there are small family cemeteries located out in fields where farms used to be that are no longer used. All are very interesting to walk through, the head stones tell the history of the people who lay buried there.

 I watch the History channel, The Bio channel, Discovery and the Animal Channel.90% of the time.

The other ten percent is Big Bang Theory, South Park and Simpsons. No I am not a kid,  I am a 60 year old professional woman. I also hate Reality shows.