When my body is no longer useful to me I'll quit showing up to keep it going. As is, it is 70 and I haven't seen sufficient reason to let it go. Another 30+ years seems reasonable to me.   

 When I was bullied at school I responded with crying and begging which worked so well that it became a behavioral-standard-avoidance-tactic of mine and led to other forms of black-mail and intimidation by my rivals requiring ingenious forms of revenge and reverse persecution. Within a few months I was a person to avoid and every little accident and fowl-up was blamed on me...of course...even when I could not have been involved.  

A humorous account of our expedition: amusing, funny, comic, comical, entertaining, diverting, witty, jocular, jocose, lighthearted, tongue-in-cheek, wry, facetious, laughable, risible; hilarious, uproarious, riotous, zany, farcical, droll; informal priceless, side-splitting, gut-busting, rib-tickling, knee-slapping, thigh-slapping. ANTONYMS serious. I try to be humorous and am too often taken seriously as I wander indulgently into the deep morasses of improbability and objectional mire of "ant it awful" in black and blood. "True Blood" is a comedy to me, as well, so much more. I have no fear, so many things I see and know of are humerous. I also see many sad things that others think of as being happy and satisfying...like those whose life is lived in an a repeating cycle of love-hate-rage-rejection-blame-guilt-sorrow-loss-vengence-denial-discover-fear-hopefulness-and so on to repeat the same basic patterns over and over, again and again.         

I collect junk. Old...broken appliances, electronics, small machines, electronic test equipment...all before 1970...and tools and process descriptions. Old iron, assembly components...nuts,bolts,screws, plastic...lots of plastic and metals. I also make tools and reproduce parts that are not available any other way. It's the most fasenating hobby and often profitable. Repair and clean-up an old (1940-1950) kitchen appliance can bring $40.00 at a yard sale because it works, looks clean and known for long term use. The cash value is less important to me now but the hobby keeps me going for more.      

 NO SECRETS. Eliminating all secrets makes for a very open and honest culture. If there were no secrets there would be no lies, nothing to fear. I think the world would be a much more pleasant experience to live in with nothing to fear. 

Openness. The best way to preserve peace and good-will.

Privacy, secrecy, irresponsible-harsh opinions, name-calling, denial of rights, un-challengable opinions, covertly hostile expressions and the denial of rights are among the most shameful acts in all humanity and history.   

"If I were an alien..." I would hide-out, appear as human as possible and avoid speaking until I learned the language. Near Roswell New Mexico in the '40's after the alien ship crashed there, there were quite a few folk who showed-up as deft-mutes traveling anywhere but there. The government said 4 were caught but later denied it all and considering the size of the space-ship it was more likely that there were hundreds of passengers or much more....the government claimed nothing happened and that it was a weather balloon. 

Go to the police and explain the situation and when he is all about not leaving. Don't announce your intentions to him, just call in your friends to pack him off at their discretion. I know that it's using cops as if they are bouncers in a bar, which is the behavior he is demonstrating as if he's in a bar past closing. 

The problem is not any social group...The use of Hypnosis is a violation of personal free will. It's use by secret agents produces groups of similarly indoctrinated persons who will, on que, behave in their instructed manner as if the 'Will of God' were their one clear instruction from God. Hypnosis is the usurpation of the will of God. The crime is always known by God...why else is there guilt, Hades,  and occasional vapor states...poof!        

God does not do futile.