Rhotra - Oh really - she doesn't answer you - oh please - do you wish us to think you are so naeve and innocent - I hope she never does - You are a married man with two children - where are you coming from with this - your poor wife and children. As An Old Friend said what would your wife say about this? Yes and how awkward is this - just get it right huh!!!!
Rhotra - so you think you can come on here and tell us you fancy some cream bun which looks more tasty than your wife! but cannot afford - no you cannot afford this - you have commitments - a wife and two children unless you wish to relinguish them, which it would appear you have already done in your mind.
Pandu - No I am hybrid. There are many Indonesians in London - and once a chap from Indonesia sent me the most beautiful photographs still have them on my e-mail. Looks devine.
Bo saraxy - Very controversial subject - you can indeed research this yourself. Scientists are still trying to find a gene for this. It is also thought to be to do with too much testosterone while in the womb. This applys to true homosexuality if it is correct - but I belief there is a fine line here i.e. bisexual, homosexual and heterosexual which can depend on circumstances, enironmental factors all of which can play a part here. Does it really matter in the scheme of things. Any which way finding a soul mate cannot be anything but a good thing.
leow - what kind of question is this? Why don't you tell us if your need is so pressing. Perhaps because you are all in black - did I just say that?
Seeker, yes as Romos says - leave him alone but make sure he knows you are there for him no pride necessary here. There must be a reason why this is - think about this too - he'll get back to you. Good Luck.
Oh yes - this is free and worth it.
yasseen - quite painful for your cat - check his urine - colour if possible and smell important - if its smells at all especially smells of ammonia - also check both urine and faeces for blood which I am sure you have done (ammonia and blood - kidney disease). You will know if he is in pain otherwise, or loosing weight. Also could have a problem with his anal glands - If they are enlarged can be felt with a small gloved finger by vet. All the other advice given here will help - get the constipation sorted and then see how you go.
ROMOS - I would kiss this just gorgeous creature anytime - he could slober all over me - hey you I sent you a kiss and a hug - good luck again don't forget the fluids post operatively. Bossy or what!
itsmee - I am totally eclectic - although not keen on the RAP stuff - just don't get it probably too modern for me but just do not like the sound otherwise absolutely everything - blues, country, classical, opera, musicals, jazz etc. Born in 1940 well what more can I say? Have a huge music collection to include vinyl. Yes I know may sound sad to some of you guys. I need without question need music in my life - so much part of my past and what was then becomes now for me in relation to music.
Bebs - it very much depends on age and when the cancer was diagnosed - as quite often the person dies with the cancer and not because of it i.e. prostate cancer. As Colleen says check this out with your Medical Adviser be it General Practioner or Consultant - definitely needs referring to a Consultant without question - to determine the stage and histology depending on the age of the person. Good luck with this - survival rates can be pretty good.