I have just seen the news, a truly shocking thing to happen, an event that brings many people together in  good spirit to have such tragic consequence, my thoughts are with all, I sincerely doubt this was accidental, there is, as you are probably aware extreme concern about the upcoming marathon in London, and that for the funeral of Margaret Thatcher

I think I would choose a time when neither of you are upset, sit down and tell him it just isn't working the way things are currently, explain why, and ask him what he thinks his options are

I find writing things down (could be an age thing with me) but once everything is written down I then prioritize, tick them off as they're completed.

As for managing time between work and home, I always made sure I had some down time, the world doesn't stop if the linen cupboard is untidy

Always allow enough time for tasks, there is no point setting aside 20 minutes, when realistically the appointment or task may run into an hour

Never be afraid to say no

This is a question and answer site, it's all about trying to help people find an answer to something they don't know or cannot find elsewhere , or asking a question about something they need help with, at times the site is used to ask for opinions or  idea's

If I were forced to eat one instead of my usual Vegemite, I think it would take at least a schooner of beer

I would probably wonder if anyone was truly that crazy, all about partying often getting changed for work in the elevator on my way back from one , doubt I'd survive doing that now, let alone want to , though I was married relatively young and also had my children young,

I like mostly 70"s, and 80"s stuff, brings back fond memories of super mini skirts (ugh) and huge wedge shoes, also lots of outrageous fun (obviously that was mostly pre husband and children days) oh the memories.....all good

Sorry I missed your post, but all my thoughts and very best wishes for you, I hope by now you are recovering, I don't recall you telling anyone "off" but I think most of us are pretty thick skinned, please keep us posted xx

I'm lambshank, or lamby to those that know me well

In 1946 Pristina became the capitol