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    Emergency Theatre tonight..?2 HRS..i KNOW LOADS OF YOU don`t like me much for telling you all off BUT ANYONE WHO WISHES ME LUCK...NO TU..I`D BE GRATEFUL!...I wish you all the best...but do me a favour and all be friends..I love this site and count you all as my special friends...however much I`VE pIS**ed you off..i value you all!! ALL LOVE MILLIE...Sorry have been harsh..but all i wanted was good karma back for everyone!...No plus points please am just very anxious!

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    +8  Views: 1735 Answers: 15 Posted: 11 years ago
    clu

    Don't worry about us millie! We will be ok! Just you get thru your troubles! We will be waiting!
    millie111

    Thanks Clu...i`m worried re my famiy and my lovely friends on here...if it wa a case of winning the lottery or everyone being ok...i`d def go for the latter!!...thanks xxxx
    Colleen

    Moderator
    I can tell you're scared. You're shouting ;) You're a fighter, you'll get through this. This place is cyber, your life is real. Worry about that. You need all your strength to get through what you have to get through. Send me an e-mail as soon as you can so I know you're OK. xx
    millie111

    No It breaks my heart knowing that things arent great on here at the moment..cyber or not..you are all my friends whom ive grown very fond of!...please just for me all look after one another...whatever happens tonight..and I shall get through...I can`t bare loggerheads on here..I`m not important..but you all are to me...so that`s my wish..that you all sort out differences and put bad feelings behind you...you`ve kept me so happy since I joined..thank you xxxx 1/2 hr or less til theatre and yep am scared..how brave am I ..not!!! XXXXXXXXXMILLIE..THE NAUGHTY ONE XXX
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Millie is on her way into surgery. She has a 50/50 chance of making it. I know her to be a fighter. I'm counting on her to get through this. I'll let you know if I hear anything.

    2 days ago
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    clu: Thanks Colleen! She sounds so scared! I hope we helped her a
    little!
    2 days ago.
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    millie111: Thanks THE lovely Colleen..I`m drugged up but staying on her until the last minute..i`m so nervous!..i don`t usually admit that..but I hAVE MY kids and you horrible lot to worry about!!LOL...i`m very drugged up..but still not enough to worry..my kids are well provided for and prepared as best as i can..that breaks my heart..my job was always to look after them...but you lot..you worry me too..and I don`t want that...I`ve asked C to be a Godma to Tilly my littlest...am waiting for an answer...I`M FIGHTING THIS..i hate to say I`VE gone against all my principles and am going private..top surgeon..but not much else has worked!...i`ve been lucky to get this far...but I`m terrified!..surgery may last up til 10 hrs...I hope to be back on here asap..please God!!;-)...In the meantime please make it a happy site as it was for me to hpefully come back to...I send you all my special love xxxxxxALL LOVE AND PEACE TO YOU ALL..MILLIE...EXCUSE MY EVEN WORE TYPING! xxxx
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    clu: We are going to be happy for you. Millie! We'll wait it out with you!

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    Colleen: Geez, you were suppose to be in the room already! Typical hospital! I will hear from you soon!

    I answered you in e-mail.

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    Tommyh: Jeepers creepers.You think you have troubles until you hear someone elses.I think Millie will be OK.She's got a ton of guts.
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    bustieone

    Millie best luck and we are thinking of you and the children, regards...
    Colleen

    Moderator
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    hector5559
    Karma: 107960

    Hurry up millie we need you back,xxx,

    15 Answers

    Update on Millie:


    Message from her brother:


    Millie was moved from the recovery room @10:00 am and taken straight to intensive therapy unit where the Doctors decided to put her into a medically induced coma. This latest surgery is the most serious of a series of operations that she has had to endure and the next 48 hours are the main critical hours. There`s really not much more to tell you at the moment except that one of the family will be with her at all times. We are just praying that she will maintain her  incredible fighting spirit and that we`ll have some more positive news to report in the near future. 


    George. 




    Please keep good thoughts of Millie. She can use all the help and energy that we can send her.  


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    Second update. 


    Millie is still hanging in there. I've received another e-mail from her brother which I share part of with you. The rest of it is just talking of his night worrying over her and what her children are going through. This part is to those of you who have posted here. 


    "I shall be back at the hospital along with one of the older children early in the morning and shall keep you updated as regularly as possible.My sister is a very gutsy lady and we know that she will fight as hard as her little body will let her just for the sake of being around for the children and family and our dear Mother who is now in her 90's and frail herself.So all that I can say now is a big Thank you to you all and I shall chat at her bedside in the morning and tell her how lucky she is to have such caring friends and I shall send her your love as she is without doubt sending you as she sleeps."  


    Kindest regards,

    George. 



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    Update 4/7 



    I've spent the day at the hospital and one of my brothers and Adriel are back with her now.Very little news at this stage as she is still not awake but her vital signs have remained stable.We have just been sitting and talking to/at her even although with this medicated coma it is apparently used mainly for brain injury trauma but it being used in this case to completely rest all organs as sedation alone was deemed insufficient.I'm afraid that ,that is all the information available today.We are just taking things hour by hour at the moment,she is in good hands and appears as comfortable as can be expected.  



    George 



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    Update 4/8 



    I'm afraid that tonight the news is not so bright.The Doctors decided to attempt to bring Millie round and to highly sedate her as her vital signs have been stable and they believed that she was ready to try to begin early stages of recovery with out the machines doing most of the work for her.This was carried out at 16.00 hours but we were alerted to get to the hospital fast as she had complications and had run into severe breathing difficulties.She was immediately reconnected to the machine supplying oxygen to her lungs,she had ceased breathing for approximately 2 minutes but her heart did not stop beating at any time. It is believed that she had suffered a minor blood clot to her lungs and medicine is being given to disolve the clot along with anti biotics as it was possibly due to a chest infection and physiotherapy is being performed hourly to assist her.We are all extremely worried and had no idea that a complication such as this could be a main risk factor.
    She is said to be stable again at the moment but whilst trying to stay positive it is very hard to do so.We are all overwhelmed by today and the sudden set back and shall try and gain a few hours sleep but it's a very difficult time.All that we can do is maintain hope and pray that the next hours bring brighter news.I'm sorry to have to report this to you but we thought that you would rather know what is happening.



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    Update 4/11



    "Millie is stable again for the time being anyway.They did scans yesterday and no blood clots detected,they are not certain of the reason of the last episode except that it may have been too rapid to withdraw the extra support.She is on I.V. infusions including antibiotics but Xrays show mild chest infection,caught early.
    This is a speedy update,apologies but I hope that you understand the pressure at the moment." 



    George 



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    Second update for today (4/11). The one above was sent late last night.



    We are by no means out of the woods yet but we are all more encouraged by the situation. My sister is having excellent care around the clock,there are continuous tests,scans,checks going on all the time which is comforting in a way. We shall have another update from the Consultant in the morning which will include close family. We are in limbo pretty much until then but staying positive.I shall let you know of any changes but for now it's just a slow process of waiting.   



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    Update 4/12



    Good news! Millie has been brought out of her coma and is breathing well on her own,well with just oxygen and moderate sedation,this started last night under strict medical supervision and renal tests show that the kidney side of the op are stable and satisfactory,not rejected as has previously been at this early stage.Still a way to go but things looking more hopeful! 



    Cheers, George 



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    Update 4/13



    The news remains positive,she is conscious but very drowsy but improving.Her sedation is being reduced and her morphine is being kept to the lowest possible dose as she is usually more distressed by the side affects than the actual pain but she is conscious enough to alert the nurses if she needs top up.
    Two of the children have seen her today for a very short time and my nephew and Victoria(Our other sister's children) and my other nephew and nieces are queuing up to see her on Sunday.  She is drowsy and not fully with us and is naturally sleepy and may get more prone to bouts of confusion with the pain relief. So the news is getting better and we are all elated at this present time. 



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    MESSAGE FROM MILLIE!!!!!



    Hello..it's me!......I'm very tired and ccant stay awake for long...but just to say hello and tell you that I'm getting better!!!....I don't recall an awful lot but maybe thats for the best.When I wake up I'll read all the E-mails...I cant see straight and will be asleep soon again but I'M in one piece and thou I don't really even know what day it is or how long ive been away... I was pretty unwell ,so am told.Just sending you lots of love and hope not ramblig on xxxxxxxmillie

    PS.my kidney is now functioning almost as good as the next persons!!!!!!!!:-))and im going to get properly better the drs say!
    clu

    Thanks for the update Colleen! We appreciate your effort!
    Bob/PKB

    Thank you from me, too. Will be checking here daily for news. Please tell George MILLIE and the family are in my prayers.
    lambshank

    Thanks Colleen, I can't imagine what Millie's family through
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Update
    Tommyh

    BRAVO!
    Ann

    Thank you Colleen. Sending her love and prayers.
    lambshank

    Great news, will keep my fingers crossed for her, and her family in my thoughts
    lindilou

    Hey millie bean...talk to ya soonest babes!! xoxoxox LL ;)
    sunnyB

    That's great news, thanks Colleen.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    update
    Colleen

    Moderator
    update
    bulletman

    Really great news, much appreciated, Colleen.
    lindilou

    (((((((THANKS COLLEEN)))))))

    All the best Millie.I do wish you luck.Just think.from tomorrow,every day will get a little better for you & before you know it you will be your old self again.Get back to us ASAP! :)

    Colleen

    Moderator
    below reply moved to where it goes

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    millie111
    Karma: 129860

    thanks tommy..selling even worse as had pre med!!...i`d be lying ifi said i wasntscared!...I DON`T GIVE UP EASILY...BUT AM SCARED I WONT BE HERE TO TRY N SORT OUT THE FEUDS..OR AT LEAST TRY TO...LIFE IS WAY TOO SHORT ..IT`S TO ENJOY...PLEASE LOOKAFTER EVERYONE ON HER WHILE IM AWAY!!.xxxxxxxxxmillie...one of my cats is a tommy and he`s a peacemaker too!!!!:-)....SORRY TYPING IS SOBAD!xxx
    millie111

    00.09 i`m out of here...love one and other as I have/do love you...It`S OUT of my hands now.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    I've posted an update about Millie.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Update and it's good news :) See below.

    No T.U. from me, I'm limited and have used them up.  But I think there are other issues involved here. Thanks for putting out your feelings............

    millie111

    tHANKS julie that`s so ind...I don`t care if I never get a tu again,,i just want to be back with my aka friends!XXXXX
    Colleen

    Moderator
    I've posted an update about Millie.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Update and it's good news :) See below.

    Milliebean Oh my Milliebean...We all love you and I do believe that ALL OF US are going to meet together...eventually. I am no soothsayer my friend and tho' my sight is failing I can see clearly that LOVE conquers all things, especially those things that may be detrimental to our spirits. Worry not darling Woman, be of a peaceful continence. We are streaming the LOVE babe...............now........I love you Mills....TTYL   ;)   LL  xoxoxoxoxoxox




    Alright millie, we're all sending our best and wishing you well...so hang in there honey...your loved ones have got your back...no worries...be well! xox   .............................................................................................................................

    Colleen

    Moderator
    I've posted an update about Millie.
    lindilou

    Thanks Colleen...I have been so concerned about our girl...thank you for these updates. Peace..and much love....xox LL
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Update and it's good news :) See below.
    lindilou

    Thanks so much Colleen...even had the Medicine Man say prayers...all good ! ;)
    Colleen

    Moderator
    update below

    Sorry I missed your post too. My thoughts and prayers are with you.. May God bless you.

    Colleen

    Moderator
    I've posted an update about Millie.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Update and it's good news :) See below.

    We love you miilie! Good luck! I'll be thinking of you!

    millie111

    Thanks so much clu..I`m notton here to be popular...my iece describes me as the peacemakerof the family..thats so touching...I just hate to see animosity esp on here...please encourage people to make up..this site has kept me going and made me so happy..i wanna cry when i see fall outs...please if I`m worth anything to any of you..I want to wake up to a happy site again!...how selfish am I !! xxxhugs to you all!!XXX
    Colleen

    Moderator
    I've posted an update about Millie.
    clu

    That is great! Thanks for the information!

    Sorry I missed your post, but all my thoughts and very best wishes for you, I hope by now you are recovering, I don't recall you telling anyone "off" but I think most of us are pretty thick skinned, please keep us posted xx

    Colleen

    Moderator
    She's just barely started. It may be 10 hours before the surgery is complete. This is going to be a long night :(
    Colleen

    Moderator
    I've posted an update about Millie.

    ""Oh, dear Millie, here is a hug.You are in my thoughts and prayers. Wishing and hoping a speedy recovery for you.


     

    mycatsmom

    that kitty pic is incredibily cute !
    Millie, good luck.We know that you will be well soon, b/c we're praying for you and sending good vibes thru cyberspace.
    Love,
    Juliana AKA Julie
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Millie update, it's good news!
    pythonlover

    Moderator
    That's great news! I knew she could do it. :)
    Hi Millie Colleen told me about your circumstances I have really never had any problems with you sweetheart I will be thinking of you and send some really healing thoughts for you xxxxx
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Finally, good news on Millie! See my updates.
    melandrupert

    Thanks Colleen will have a look x
    Colleen

    Moderator
    millie update above

    I always consider you as an Aka friend, as everyone else has said we will all be rooting for you, see ya after the op. :-)

    Colleen

    Moderator
    If you're interested, I update as her brother sends me news of her condition. So keep checking back.
    bulletman

    Thanks, Colleen, keep me informed, please.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    She is still very weak but her vitals signs are stable. There is no suggestion yet as to when the doctors will bring her out of the coma. She is never alone as family members are there with her daily and her g/f who is a doctor has been staying at the hospital so she can be there nights. They talk to her all the time and pass along messages so if there's anything you'd like to say to her, I will be sure to send it along.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    They tried to bring her out of the coma. It didn't go well. See my update.
    bulletman

    I really appreciate you keeping me informed with the latest update on Millie, i am feely a little distressed at the latest news on her, thou.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    I know what you mean BM. It's not been the best of news and has caused me great angst. Today's e-mail has helped a little though. Updating in a second......

    Colleen

    Moderator
    Update and it's good news :) See above
    bulletman

    The update is reassuring, Colleen-- brilliant, unfortunately i won't be able to get to a computer for a few days as i am getting married today- Sat. 13th -- still keep me informed please.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    I will post any updates here and congrats again on your wedding!
    bulletman

    The lastest up date sounds reassuring, very pleased.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Welcome back! How was the wedding? Are you on your honeymoon? Yes, she's still with us and coming along slowly but she is awake. Just doesn't remember things from moment to moment but they believe that is due to the morphine she's on.
    bulletman

    Great to hear Millie is recovering althou slowly, good news -- just had a couple of days at a B & B roughly 10 k's from home, i will do a posting shortly, but i regard Millie at this time more important.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    I've posted a message from Millie :)

    May all go well Millie,see you after the opp.xxx

    Colleen

    Moderator
    If you're interested, I update as her brother sends me news of her condition. So keep checking back.
    hector5559

    O/K Colleen thanks,
    Colleen

    Moderator
    update

    Thinking of you millie, God bless.

    Colleen

    Moderator
    See my updates, good news!

    Millie,  Glad you're making progress. You're blessed to have such a nice family . You brother , George was keeping us up to date. We love you '


           ~ ~ ~ ~ Juliana  AKA  Julie  


     

    Prayers and love to you for continued recovery, all the best, stay strong. 

    millie - hello you - sorry missed your message. Seems you are progressing now. Oh my what an ordeal for you. Just you be strong and get well. As mycatsmom said you are so lucky to be blessed with such a supportive caring family. Seems the hospital were good also - unusual these days. wIshing you well everyone is on board to help you your family and great wishes from all the guys here and just know how strong you are - love to you xoxo.

    Poppy3

    Colleen - thankyou for this.


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