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    Does anyone feel or think that this site is a little clickish? If so is that a good or bad thing?

    +8  Views: 924 Answers: 17 Posted: 12 years ago

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    Perhaps it is clickish, or could be perceived to be clickish. But, I believe the "clickishness" is primarily based upon respect for the attributes a person shares. Everyone might not always agree, but when different individuals can express their opinion or ideas in intelligent and polite ways, you can't help but develop a respect and interest in seeing what that person has to say. When someone says something that makes you re-examine how you think or feel about an issue, they've given you the gift of that perspective...and there is a good degree of that generosity here amongst many of the regulars.

    I think we just get along with who we get along with. 

    tabber

    thanks Colleen, great point!

    GUILITY


    but does that ,matter,I dont think so,... the world would be boring if you got on with everyone

    ed shank

    Your so right, occasional opposition is good. Don't like have "YES" people around me all the time.
    melandrupert

    ed shank good comment yes i do agree xxx
    melandrupert

    dondowning Yes yes yes yes you are funny xxx
    lambshank

    totally agree
    melandrupert

    lambshank thanks xxx

    Yes, a mouse click here and a click, click here, there a mouse...click...click...click...

    It's human nature... we gravitate and then we congregate.  Can't help ourselves.


    I can't help thinking would the results be different if we were mingling in the real and actual?

    Bob/PKB

    Have wondered myself, fish girl.

    Your all my buddies, I don't have to agree with anyone, anymore than you having to agree with me. That is the ONLY reason I'm still here.

    to me that's the whole thing about life, 'the people thing". i think its great. the people thing. otherwise how boring.  we be like little green men.  they appear to be bored from what i have seen in movies and on tv.  all of them have the same expression on their face. i am probably wrong tho. that mental telepathy thing should keep em pretty much into each other.  "he's thinking that, he's thinking this.  you know  that's why we on this site.  if we had mental telepathy we would already know what we all think and feel and we probably would want to visit a less evolved civilization and see what those citizens were up to. "The People Thing!"

    lambshank

    tabber,you have really delved into a tangent, interesting

    I guess i'm the lone ranger...

    Bob/PKB

    How so, daren 1? The group answering this question is the group I most always encounter, and you are definitely part of that group. It's not really a clique, of course, but I'm curious why you answered "lone ranger".
    mycatsmom

    At least someone spelled clique right.....PKB did

    I agree with fishgirl, we feel an affinity with some people, gravitating  towards those that have similar thoughts and ideas is a natural process even at an unconscious level.

    If it is cliquish, how did that happen?  This is definitely the group I most often find myself interacting with, but I don't seek out any of your questions in particular.   It's nice to see a newer name show up, but there's just a core that seems reliable.  No one is discouraged from contributing in any category, so what phenomena puts this bunch in touch so often?  Again, if this is a clique, how did it happen?   
     

    Tommyh

    Same here Bob.I think you just said it the way I see it.Some people are worth talking to,some aren't.
    Bob/PKB

    Like all of us! :)
    tabber

    Bob/PKB that is truly a facinating question. Why do of the same people answer many questions from each other. What made that happen. Facinating. Do like minds gravitate toward each other.
    Bob/PKB

    I would love to know the answer! It almost has a "LOST" element to it.

    Cant say ive noticed it but i tend to look at the questions and answeras rather than whos posted them,maybe its just me...

    tabber

    i look at the questions also, rather than who posted it.
    sadiesays

    I really don't pay attention to who asked the questions unless they are really rude. I also don't pay attention to who answers unless it is some hot conversation. My thing is I don't have the attention span of a flea. I cannot remember who said what to who.
    Poppy3

    sadiesays - me too can't remember when either.

    double clicked by accident answer hopefully is above..

    Been clickish, is not good thing, We are all here to ask /answer questions. But as saying goes, There is favouritism in hell. as well as on earth.

    mycatsmom

    Haven't seen Dollybird here for awhile. Where have you been, girlfriend ?
    Dollybird

    Hi mycatsmom, how are you,Thank you for your message.Apart from looking for you,girl friend,was off line cause my home got flooded, worse is over now, till next time,lol Have good week end x

    It's human nature we all steer towards people we like or comfortable with and run a mile from those we don't.

    Birds of a feather   .....................................................!


    2nd part of question: Yes.

    mycatsmom

    flock together

    Not intentionally ,just happens that like thinking people show up in the same place . I have seen a bunch of answers and I think most are on the same page . Personally I think we are in good company  . If its a click then so be it . I am fine with it .

    We are a family and newbies are welcomed. I was gone for a couple of weeks and it surprised me how much I missed it here and how happy it made me to get back and see old friends........



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