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    what do we women need to do to look attractive to men? I'm not talking about wearing tons of make-ups or look sluty...

    +5  Views: 958 Answers: 19 Posted: 12 years ago
    FISH-O

    Pej... You don't need to stand out in a croud. You just need to stand out for that one person and you will.
    Clonge

    "Makeup & paint make you what you ain't." Beauty comes from within, but wearing the right clothes and colors that accentuate your positive features while minimizing the negative ones, can go a long way.

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    Okay "girlfriend", you have got my area of expertise;) Number one...you must first establish a sense of true self confidence. See yourself as you wish others to see you. You are what you think. The awesome thing is, if you ooze self confidence, you know you are a beautiful, interesting and an intelligent woman, you essentially ooze it from every pour.Just don't become arrogant in all you have to offer. It's not about what you put on, it's all about what you put out there, and I'm certainly not talking about in bed. Look in the mirror and really see what you have to offer. God made us beautiful. He gave us beautiful curves, and soft features for a reason. Confidence and love for who you are as well as a good sum of self respect will get you further than you ever imagined. You are what you think.

    Clean fresh girl next door sweet . Dressed up dressed down don't matter . Low mileage ,low maintenance ,Genuine ,sincere ,and likes me . Best qualities come from with in the rest is just window dressing . Classy ,mischievous,and confident ,curious . Just your average every day super woman .LOL                  Bill 

    FISH-O

    Everyone I know is just like that ... including myself! ... I'm serious. :)
    pej

    Can I be the real me but still stand out from the crowd?
    pej

    Trust me I'm anything but easy or play hard to get (assuming you meant me).
    FISH-O

    Bluesman just wants a real person. Not hard to find in this part of the world.
    Poppy3

    fish girl don't forget me I,m like that - but so independent.
    tabber

    bluesman 195 i love love love your answer. Do you mind if i quote you sometimes. People always ask me about relationships. I will give your name credit.

    Confidence is something that will turn heads every time. Be comfortable just being you.

    Be herself

    Trust me if you are the things I mentioned you will stand out in any crowd. All class and beauty comes from within . Believe it or not . Put a trashy girl in fancy clothes with all the trimmings then put her in a ballroom and she will be seen for what she is . We call it putting lipstick on a pig . Love yourself and find contentment and you will glow .                    Bill

    " As for the (Panda) a (Woman) with healthy,natural,& clean physical qualities with a certain amount of intelligence as well as a modest,sensible approach to life,a little dark & mysterious.Traditional feminine looks,simply dressed (not gaudy or flashy); understated but feminine  summer dresses,accentuated breasts,(natural,not enhanced),an aura of innocence or neediness,not too aggressive,loud,or overly confident & the promise of devotedness." "Now that's! my image of an attractive (Woman)!" ;)

    carmaxable

    thanks for the tips, i NEED them!
    PANDA

    "The pleasure was all mine."
    pej

    so I guess, push-up bra is out the pic. :)
    PANDA

    "There ain't no need for a push-up bra once you've found your confidence." ;)
    FISH-O

    No No do the push up bra... seriously. It thins you. One glorious thing is just fine. I would say more but I know I would get into trouble.
    Make sure you buy the matching panties and buy adorable colours ... that part is for you.
    PANDA

    " To (Fish Girl) tight panty-lines are a turn on for the (Panda)! "
    FISH-O

    You are a funny man!

    show her feminine qualities!  

    pej

    Such as?
    sawali

    her walk, talk, intelligence,helpfulness, sexiness etc. she has been endowed with precious attributes!

    There you go! .... the men are answering.  Cute!

    pej

    Yep, men who know what they want in partners are cute indeed.

    I'm not looking but, your attire should be reflective off your age. Nothing wrong with make-up, it should enhance the beauty that's already there, not transform you into someone "you" can't identify when looking in the mirror. Less cleavage shown leaves something to the imagination. If your looking for a quick date, try the trollop look. 

    pej

    Will you marry me? :D
    Bob/PKB

    GET IN LINE, PEJ. I saw him second (after his wife).

    I have always had this 'Thing' for women in uniform.Not military or police necessarily.For instance the girls at our bank wear a uniform & they always look snappy & neat.

    tabber

    Right on Tommyh!

    Give off the right pheromones well OK it helps.

    we seventh day adventists believe women dont need makeup. God already gave us beauty. who needs warpaint?  lol

    PANDA

    "There you go! now that's what I'm talk-in bout that's the right attitude."
    tabber

    yes makeup is a sort of war paint.

    The problem with communicating with women is they cant leave well enough alone . Always have to interpret things and twist them to their own liking . Your thought process makes zero sense . Take a look at my previous answer and I defy you to point at where I said you were easy . I am baffled and confused. Hopeless trying to explain .It is what it is  and the question "What does it mean"  never crosses our mind .

    FISH-O

    You have been unlucky. That is all I am going to say.
    ... NO NO NO NO NO ... damn! You have been unlucky!
    mom

    bluesman...I have realized many things through my short 42 years of life and one of them is to just stop trying to figure men out just as I share the same advice for men..Simplified...women are complex being from Venus, man are basic being from Mars...whats the point of trying to figure it out entirely....it takes the challenge out;)
    Bob/PKB

    Not long ago a man commented that I put words in his mouth, so I get what you are saying. Women do tend to over-analyze what men say, and I've read and seen enough to feel that you guys really aren't as "deep" or complicated as we make you out to be.
    The mere fact that there are men here answering this question is enough to make me sit up and take serious notice of what you are saying. Any advice for older women such as myself? The "competition" from women in their 30's, and 40's (and 50's...might as well face the calendar and admit 60 is looming) is overwhelming.
    bluesman1951

    Bob ,My advise is Ballroom dancing .60 means nothing group classes are the way to start ,cheaper. Better class of people attend these events . I have met Doctors ,Lawyers, District Attorneys, Professionals of all kinds . Takes maybe 3 months to get a decent handle on things and you are off and running . People dress up for these events and generally speaking people have really good manners and are well behaved at the dances .Expands your circle in a huge manner and is a skill you will enjoy as long as you can stand up and walk . Good therapy and exercise as well . Gives a confidence you will enjoy beyond words. Good investment in your self . Thats my advice ,use it as you will . Listen to some Zydeco waltz on you tube and see if that dont sound like fun . Bill
    Bob/PKB

    Thanks, Bill. I'll look into it; a friend of mine used to teach BR dance and has offered to teach them to me whenever. It would be fun to dance even the VERY modified, basic versions of what I see on DWTS. I'll let you know after I attend my first dance. Thank you again! PKB
    pej

    Bob: I don't know any Ballroom dancing, but I take Zumba class, fun time and get the cardio work out too. Another productive way to meet people.

    Clean and well-groomed, especially hair and nails and well kept clothing and shoes. Then just be your sunny, happy, interesting self. You will shine and whether you stand out in a crowd or not is not a standard of measurement you will need to go by.

    Just  be yourself, if that is not enough, the man is not worth it.

    Be the beautiful person that you already are!  Women care more about makeup than men do.  Even  tho makeup does catch men's attention, as well as low cut tops.  And other things depending on the man.  Be yourself and be very interested in him and treat him nice.  Every man wants a nice woman and every woman needs a nice man.  Most men love woman who are just themselves and are kind to them and others.  And sexy is good too.

    I think a man is really attracted to a woman who seems gentle, clean, and intelligent. The old " you can't judge a book by it's cover " type. Beauty comes in many forms is a truth.


    For the most part.. a physically beautiful on the outside woman, is stuck on herself as well as the male counterpart. There's nothing wrong with having beauty, but too many thrive on only that.

    Appearance can be important, but a short list is : Be polite, Don't be a non stop talker, Ask him questions that make him feel important, Don't make yourself the center of attention. Be well groomed. Don't " fawn " over him.

    fish girl, i love you woman & your answer are the bomb?



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