Tell her you and the kids love her very much and you need to talk about your future together

I got her to go to AA and we all went for a coffee afterwards they seemed nice people She told me later she didn't feel alone anymore and she will go to AA again She is having trouble with the idea of never drinking again as they told her she suffers from a mental obsession and she has become physically allergic to alcohol  Her abnormal reaction (allergy) is that when she starts drinking - even a teaspoon full - she cannot stop Also booze makes her depressed, anxious and paranoid One of the women members we were with has not drank alcohol in any shape or form for 31 years yet was once a homeless drunk Many in the group were just ordinary people who had just lost control of their drinking though.

Don't worry about life after death - many people don't have a life BEFORE death

Thank you for your understanding

The intervension idea seems a good one and othrs have suggested I go to Alanon - family groups for the friends and family of the person who drinks too much

THEMSELVES - Happiness is an inide job!

When in Saudi Arabia I discovered they hire their Moslim cousins (mainly from Pakistan) to do the meanial work then send them back when they reach 60 years of age Is this a good idea for all countries? PS they do not allow men and women from the same family in at the same time so no offspring The guest workers send their money tax free back to their families who arethen  relatively rich compaired to the locals

Yes and it travels at around 750 miles per hour

I went to quickiedivorce.com and they helped with the paperwork But my divorce was a simple streightforward one that cost me £180

my new partner went through a messy divorce with her ex and it cost them both thousands in lawyer fees

I don't know but here comes another one ???????????