No!! Sweetheart please think about this , when we sleep with someone you sleep with all the people he has been with in the past 5 yrs. Not just that but when you lay down with someone you are connecting spirtually., and for a women it means alot more than it does a man. I was 17 when I slept with my first long term boy friend he said he loved me , so I did it. The next day everyone at school knew and of course he broke up with me that next day. He was patient it took him 2yrs to get it and that is all he wanted .I met my now husband and we have been together since then 26yrs!! I have said all this just to say save yourself for the right man even if you are not a virgin you can still start anew and make a man wait and if he does then you know that he is in it for you and not for the good stuff.Be sweet darlin and I hope this has been helpful my sweet friend have a good day darlin and one more time I say make him wait cause he is gonna go tell all his buddies if you do..

This is a very touchy subject, but I myself I do not believe in abortion!!My husband and I adopted a baby that had a condition that was going to kill him no matter what Doctors could do, but that did not matter to us we still adopted him. His life span was predicted to be about 3months but he lived for nine. His mother was going to abort him but someone told her not to so she did not . If she had then this child would have not had the chance to touch as many lives as he did, he was an angel on earth and when the time came he just went to sleep and all was well the spirit of God was so strong in the room that day that thier is no words to explain ..You would have had to been there.. But anyway I fell on my knees at his funeral and thanked God that his mother chose life , because he was such an instrument of love and careing and LIFE that I dont know how my life would have been without him!!!!!

South Carolina,USA

I think some folk get married to soon. I think that if you date for awhile and I mean about 3 or 4 years and learn that person then get married and even after that you find out you still dont know that person as much as you thought you did. Also people take marriage to lightly nowdays. Marriage is a thing that you need to talk about and think very hard about.Oh and money seems to be a big issue in most marriages today. Maybe thats why me and my hubby have lasted since highschool  cause we dont have any money to fight about!!!!

Bless your heart , I am so sorry for you and your family and friends. You will be in my prayers today my  friend .May God provide everything you  need.

I dont know what I would do , I have been with my hubby since I was 16 and I am now 46 . but I do agree with several of the answers that have been given!!

I think it is a matter of if you feel good about your long hair, and do you get compliments. I had long hair about 5yrs ago and was told it made me look old at the time I was only 41. I loved my long hair, but after that I had it cut to shoulder length.Now I wish I would have just kept it the way I liked it..

You don"t hate me you hate yourself!!!!

I try to go to sleep at about 11:00 east coust US time but I usually sit up watching TV cause I cant sleep , I think I need hormone replacement!!!!!

So sorry darlin, I will be praying for him & your mother.