close
    should you sleep with a man on the first date

    +6  Views: 1612 Answers: 30 Posted: 12 years ago
    Nandalal

    I think u r a girl or a woman 2 ask this question.
    Y not, if the guy is handsome.
    If it is a sportsman type man (removed by moderator. Please keep your replies clean, we have children here.), I would jump to bed with him without asking any questions.
    But u can do what u think is rite, honey.

    30 Answers

    How long have you known him?

    Yvonne57

    Moderator
    I would say not long enough if they went on a first date and probably last. Now, since he has the cow, he doesn't need to go out to get his cookies and milk. What a shame.

    No!! Sweetheart please think about this , when we sleep with someone you sleep with all the people he has been with in the past 5 yrs. Not just that but when you lay down with someone you are connecting spirtually., and for a women it means alot more than it does a man. I was 17 when I slept with my first long term boy friend he said he loved me , so I did it. The next day everyone at school knew and of course he broke up with me that next day. He was patient it took him 2yrs to get it and that is all he wanted .I met my now husband and we have been together since then 26yrs!! I have said all this just to say save yourself for the right man even if you are not a virgin you can still start anew and make a man wait and if he does then you know that he is in it for you and not for the good stuff.Be sweet darlin and I hope this has been helpful my sweet friend have a good day darlin and one more time I say make him wait cause he is gonna go tell all his buddies if you do..

    You better not.  Think before you leap.

    Never, not ever, ever. You might end up liking him but given him the wrong impression!  

    No,no,no,but if you must make sure you protect yourself from all the things that you can catch including a baby that you may not want right now....Please be careful out there,surely he would'nt tell you if he had something,get to know the person 1st.

    I am in the "No" zone on this one.


    Look before you leap.

    no, not if you want his respect, once he's had you , your just another "trophey"

    Poppy3

    Oh forget this respect thing - so judgemental - it involves much more.

    ETHICS comes to mind, Ethics are standard of right or wrong, Good or Bad. Fulfil ones moral duty.  " Walk the Walk "

    Sure.Nothing wrong with that,as long as you just sleep & keep your PJs on.LMAO

    Do you ever want to be married, Don't sleep with him until you are.

    missactive

    It worked well for Anne Boleyn..... Henry VIII was forced to break away from Rome and Catholicism to marry her.... mind you, she was beheaded for her efforts!
    Headless Man

    As they say if you get the milk free, why buy the cow.

    You know the Answer as you wouldnt be asking it??? its a big NO from me you will never get respect going down that route good luck

    NO!!!!!!!! HAVE YOU LOST YOUR MIND? DO YOU WANT TO BE CALLED EASY, OR SLORE? DONT YOU HAVE ANY MORALS OR SELF RESPECT? TELL HIM TO TAKE A HIKE

    What is the rush ?Wait and see if a relationship establishes first,otherwise it will be a one night stand.

    No, dont do it. You dont know where he has been. If he realy likes and respects you, he would never ask you to sleep with him in the first place.

    Chiangmai

    2%, Ann. Most 20 year olds think with two heads. :)

    As opposed to what?  The second date?  I don't think there's a whole lot of disparity between the 1st and the 2nd, honestly.  It's up to you.  If you feel the 2nd is fine, the 1st is also fine. 


    Not a whole of distinction here.  It's not better or worse whether it's the 1st or 2nd date.

    NO.

    Aside from being called too easy or cheap, have you thought about what you might get yourself in to?


    Sexually transmitted diseases, AIDS, possibility of getting pregnant?


    But then again, it is your life.


     


     

    Would you like to?

    Yvonne57

    Moderator
    Not Appropriate.
    Papitou

    Carpe diem!

    I do not know why we always think about sex as a first thing. there are alot of good things to think about in the relationship between women abnd men. I  like sex too but life has a lot of great things too

    No and once more NO


    (I don't like men)

    I would do honey....

    Yvonne57

    Moderator
    Bad Choice

    No! but i would with a woman. lol.

    Always. Make sure your vulcanized, and bring chap-stick.

    Lupe

    Talking in code are we?

    Only if he is so boring and you doze off!  NO!

    Colleen

    Moderator
    Check your e-mail.

    I DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT YOU, BUT YOUR QUESTION IS ADDRESSED TO ME.

    I SHOULD DEFINITELY NOT SLEEP WITH A GUY ON A FIRST DATE.

    Sure, why not, have some fun and live with VD the rest of your life, then pass it on...............

    The answer has to be Dont, wait to get to know him better first. Let him wait, once he has slept with you, on first date, hell loose intrest, and think of you been cheap. ( anyones)

    only if you are very tired,but ware a diving suit ,in case he   gets randy,

    no

    You can go to sleep with him but having sex is really a bad idea for quite some time. You might want to get to know him and be sure he is someone that won't give you STD's or time to figure out if he is even worth your time, you might not even really like him. Slow down and make yourself worth waiting for.

    Ann

    Good answer mom. How is your Dad doing? Hope he is doing better. Love & prayers, Ann


    Top contributors in Marriage & Divorce category

     
    jhharlan
    Answers: 123 / Questions: 0
    Karma: 13860
     
    Benthere
    Answers: 6 / Questions: 1
    Karma: 12360
     
    Bob/PKB
    Answers: 96 / Questions: 1
    Karma: 9620
     
    Colleen
    Answers: 190 / Questions: 0
    Karma: 9480
    > Top contributors chart

    Unanswered Questions

    Yo88
    Answers: 0 Views: 17 Rating: 0
    mu88comtop
    Answers: 0 Views: 18 Rating: 0
    ta88betonline
    Answers: 0 Views: 16 Rating: 0
    Aeromexico en EspaƱol Telefono
    Answers: 0 Views: 11 Rating: 0
    PXJ
    Answers: 0 Views: 14 Rating: 0
    PXJ
    Answers: 0 Views: 15 Rating: 0
    Lucky88
    Answers: 0 Views: 25 Rating: 0
    bongdalukiwi
    Answers: 0 Views: 18 Rating: 0
    > More questions...
    452364
    questions
    719744
    answers
    754513
    users