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    Hit it and quit it?

    1st I need to stop counceling teens... LOL.... A girl tell a guy he will feel guilty if they cheat the guy says he wont.. He hits it and quits it.. Does she have a right to be angry??? He was really pushing her to be with him... I havent said anything yet.. Because I know her and I am a little pissed at him for treating her like a whore. I know they were both in the wrong...

    +1  Views: 410 Answers: 3 Posted: 13 years ago

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    Great learning experience for her. She'll be more selective and careful as to who she chooses to share herself with in the future. What was done can not be undone. She'll have to live her feelings and emotions for a while but in the end, they should make her stronger and wiser. You can only be there for her as a sounding board at this point. She'll figure it all out on her own.
    Jenn

    Thanks sweety... I still think I am going to have to kick his ass. She has been try so hard to work this out for a long time.. and I think he knew what he was doing to her... He knew she was attracted to him and he ran with it... My heart brakes for her. She will learn.. I just feel like she was taken advantage of.
    Colleen

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    Kicking his ass will make you feel better but not her. But hey, you have to feel better too. Lay one on him for me also ;)
    Hit it and quit it. You must have been listening to James Brown when you posted this question (-: I'm not exactly sure who was cheating. Is the guy married or has he a steady girlfriend? If so, she is better off w/o him, however painful this may be to her. If she did end up with him he probably would have cheated on her as well. She should consider it a life lesson and move on.
    ole hipster

    You are too cool Ms Sinclair....whoever and wherever you are...Peace, love and happiness...from...you've guessed it! ... the Ole Hipster (:
    Jenn

    They were both in separate relationships... I have scence talk to her.... I was very blunt .. Itold her that if she let him treat her like a whore then of corse that is what he will do... She is a better stronger more wise young lady for it.. Learn from her mistakes and acpect more from ppl.
    Ms Sinclair

    ole hipster- Thanks. You're pretty darn cool yourself. Jenn- Good lookin' out for your teenage friend.
    Hello again Jenn (hey, that rhymes!) it is kind of fun and a feel good thing to council the younguns' ... such different questions and perpsectives they have! Keep on keeping on! (:
    Jenn

    So what do you think about this particular situation.. I am baffled.. And really pissed off.. This guy was making her feel so wanted and now she is so ashamed. He says he needs to be a better person.. I think the little prick should have decided that better her mind fucked her... And wore her down... This has been going on for almost a year and she gave in on a weak day. Sorry I am pissed.
    ole hipster

    Hey sweetheart..just came back here after doing stuff..all you can do is literally all you can do or say ...take care of yourself first and foremost .. think I have said that to you before...the ole broad is signing out am so very tired...life in itself can make your feel this way! (:


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