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    Do you believe in spanking ?

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    +4  Views: 1482 Answers: 10 Posted: 7 years ago
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      Yes BUTT.......it should not leave bruises and welts. A spanking should be a swat on the behind, not an abusive beating, handed out with anger. That happens too often and accomplishes nothing positive.

      7 years ago. Rating: 6
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        mycatsmom

        Butt was used in the right context here ;-)
        commented 7 years ago
        Ducky

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        Thank you but....
        commented 7 years ago

        http://www.anorak.co.uk/wp-content/gallery/gifs-of-the-week-july-16/spanking-weiny.gif


                                             I do believe in spanking.


         

        7 years ago. Rating: 7
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          Ducky

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          OUCH!!!
          commented 7 years ago
          country bumpkin

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          It looks like a chubby sausage with the casing coming off in both directions. LOL
          commented 7 years ago
          Ducky

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          LOL!!
          commented 7 years ago

          Spare the rod spoil the child MCM...>>>>>>>><<<<<<<<..

          7 years ago. Rating: 7
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            Oh, I guess I believe in it, I was terrified of my mom; she used to own a horse quirt. But in all honesty, i never had to raise a hand to my son, he was that good.....

            7 years ago. Rating: 6
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              mycatsmom

              my mom used a wooden hair brush that had raised ridges on the back of it.....so it left bruises.! !
              commented 7 years ago
              tabber

              Ducky, that's why we should not assume. you help us so much I figure your life was a breeze, but I know many that had to look over their shoulder a lot as a kid. I'm happy we are talking about this topic, i'm of the mind if you can talk it out, it goes out of us. lol
              commented 7 years ago

              ....yes, guided by love

              7 years ago. Rating: 5
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                mycatsmom

                this also is a '' best answer '' It was tough to choose.
                commented 7 years ago
                tabber

                "guided by love" is a great, but it seems that we grownups start spanking on kids they get into a trance and it turns into a ruppin', then a beating. then they get to beating like they are trying to kill somebody. that's why now in California, you can just slap your kid and child protective services can remove the child or children from the home.
                commented 7 years ago
                Ducky

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                @tabber.....That means that the pendulum has swung too far in the other direction. Government should not be in the 'child raising' business. That is the job of parents and parents only! A slap is not abuse! It's the job of Mom and Dad called discipline.
                commented 7 years ago
                tabber

                Ducky, the pendulum is constantly swinging, and we must strive for balance in most things. I have worked with kids in various settings for 20 years. I have seen it all. I've seen kids taken away that maybe should have not been. However, some of these caregivers are so mean and cruel, somebody needs to step in, even if it's the government. To this day when I see a mom slapping a young child I talk to the mom. Most of the time they don't get mad, but a few have. I believe we need required child rearing classes, before a mom has the baby. I could write a book on what these kids have gone through, and what the kids have said they wish they could do to their mom. it's not pretty. these kids were called the top 2% of emotionally disturbed kids, which I believe it's basically what they have been through and what the grownup said to these kids, name calling, verbal abuse and just lack of knowledge in raising kids. everybody was not lucky like you and me and many others, who's mom's knew instinctively what to do and how much discipline to exert on the child. I love you Ducky.
                commented 7 years ago
                Ducky

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                @tabber....I only WISH that I had been what you refer to as 'lucky'. In addition, I have a close relative who has worked with the equivalent of your CPS, rescuing abused children. Believe me....I know.
                commented 7 years ago

                A gentle slap is ok, but nothing too aggressive.


                 

                7 years ago. Rating: 5
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                  mycatsmom

                  Sunny, if it's on the butt, not on the face or head
                  commented 7 years ago
                  sunnyB

                  Yes I agree mcm.
                  commented 7 years ago

                  Apparently, you are referring to using a spanking as punishment, discipline for a child.


                  My mind went elsewhere....

                  7 years ago. Rating: 3
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                    mycatsmom

                    What books have you been reading ?
                    commented 7 years ago

                    no, they say spankings cause too many problems for the child related to learning and also emotional problems later in life. we had some spankings in my family and we got some problems in my family.

                    7 years ago. Rating: 3
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                      terryfossil 1

                      Do not believe everything "They " say Tab,,the They say mob have been spruiking rubbish since the beginning of time..>>>>>>>><<<<<<<<.
                      commented 7 years ago
                      tabber

                      terry, right. but I don't believe every single thing.
                      commented 7 years ago
                      mycatsmom

                      and they say it teaches kids to hit people to solve their problems
                      commented 7 years ago

                      Absolutely not.  Spanking a child is wrong.  Children are smaller than adults.  Why raise a child in fear?  ... bad idea.  


                      Children are our blessings.  Our gifts.  


                       

                      7 years ago. Rating: 2
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                        mycatsmom

                        I tend to agree with you . I'm leaning toward the not spank the child side of the fence.
                        commented 7 years ago

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                        14 days ago. Rating: 0
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