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    why cant men stop looking for something better

    +3  Views: 915 Answers: 11 Posted: 11 years ago

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    It's in their jeans..I mean genes. oops.


    Actually a roaming eye is not hereditary but rather a personality thing...maybe. But we are discussing male behaviours and with this I am stymied as well...so..it could be a mid-life crisis thing or just that he wants to have his cake and eat it too...some guys will not grow up! Dang it!

    You ask the question in absolutes when this does not apply to all men. 


    The one's I know stop once they find what they were looking for in the first place.  Sometimes it just takes them a while to figure out what that thing they are looking for actually is.

    lindilou

    Gimme that thing..gimme that..gimme gimme that,
    gimme that thing gimme that gimme gimme that
    Gimme that thing gimme that gimme gimme that
    Gimme gimme gimme that thing!!!
    FISH-O

    Tap tap tap... Tap tap tap ... Gimme gimme gimme that thing!!!
    FISH-O

    Thanks Lindilou... That has put a bounce in my day... Boogaloo!
    Shootah

    Very well said!

    For some men it's an ego thing, plus the thrill of the hunt...etc...etc...etc

    Benthere

    EGO:

    Edging...God...Out !
    Colleen

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    Ego can be a good thing too. It takes ego to build belief in one self. One does not have a backbone without ego. Why does the Christian religion have to attack everything human and make it into something bad or against God. Trying to change people and turn them into brainless sheep is against God.
    Benthere

    Who is the Shepherd ?
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Randy.
    Benthere

    LOL...

    Even Randy will appreciate that !

    They think they can get what someone else has! It always looks like a good thing, but alas, it's usually same-oo-same--oo

    better than what? i'm happy being the best i can be..

    What an intelligent comment, brittnysmom........One for the species.

    Not all men are looking for something better.  Many of them are quite satisfied and thankful for the partners with whom they share their lives.  For a man to be looking for love in any other place is an indication that he isn't the feeling the love where he is.  I think it would be better if he packed up and moved on before "moving on", but a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.....until you catch at least one of them. 

    Bob/PKB

    BUT, you don't have them secured, as you do the one in your hand. Those other two could fly away before being captured. You could inadvertently lose the one in your hand by being so intent on getting the one(s) in the bush. Think about it.
    Bob/PKB

    Are those the wheels turning? :D

    Normally a man wants the best one he can get before he is taken to the cleaners. (Kidding)

    Men are driven to procreate, something left over from the cavemen days.....

    mycatsmom

    jh,That's the best answer I've heard yet. Maybe it's true that men aren't monogamous; and that they really have to work at it.
    jhharlan

    Thank you, I believe it with all my heart....

    Hm...I wonder if it could have anything to do with your looking at all men as being the same and none of them being trustable. If I was with someone who thought of all men being like you characterize them...trust me Tilly, it wouldn't be too long before I told you to hit the road...or I hit the road!


    If you really can't find a trustable man, maybe you should consider not trolling the same fishing hole, and just maybe you'll end up with a different kind of fish. Metaphorically speaking of course.

    If your refering to finding a better person/partner, there's obviously something wrong with the relationship. Men have a competetive nature about them that is not as prevelent in woman (my opinion) and need to have the biggest, the fastest, the most outrageous, what ever. I very often see the "Why can't men" thing posted here. I find it insulting to put me in the same catagory of a sleaze bag who can't be happy with a partner they've chosen, and find find it necessary to go trolling. 



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