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Why are some people worried about other's and what they think or don't think?  Have or don't have?  ... And, come across in a judgemental fashion.

The trick is, 'Worry about yourself'... Someone else's journey is their's to experience.  You have enough on your plate as do I.

In my experience you get something out of whatever you put in.

"What was promised by the producers to be a 'factual documentary' is, in fact, a distorted and exploitative version of Hutterite life that paints all 50,000 Hutterites in North America in a negative and inaccurate way. Scenes and dialogue were contrived resulting in a 'make believe' depiction of how we live and the spiritual beliefs we cherish," Bishops John Stahl, Peter Entz and John Waldner said in a statement Thursday.

I take it they didn't like what they saw?

My answer regards people in general:  When people take something or someone  for granted, they do not value its existence; they expect it to be there and be useful and require no attention or upkeep. To lose that convenience (could be a person as well as a thing), the INconvenience of NOT having that thing/person at one's beck and call sends out a sharp reminder that those people and things should be treated with great care and kept in good condition (as in maintaining a friendship).  When one accumulates things and people again, hopefully those treasures will be valued and appreciated. 
Sorry this doesn't go along with your Hutterites.