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    Has anybody ever been pressurised to date someone they didn't really want to?

    +3  Views: 792 Answers: 10 Posted: 12 years ago
    FISH-O

    If this bullying is happening then you need to tell someone you can trust. This is a terrible situation to be in. Can you talk to your parents or a teacher?
    FISH-O

    Entered twice... oops.
    lindilou

    Fishlet is right...it's abusive!!!Tell them so if you can without a "beat-down" and maybe find a new crew if they can't respect your space!Peace.
    philipdalton

    Actually I'm talking about a situation which occurred when I was 16. I'm 42 years old now.
    FISH-O

    Well, now you have me wondering what happened next.

    10 Answers

    Yes and it was awful. The guy was nice enough but duller than dirt.............

    dowsa

    "You did not give me a chance .I was in "Drag clothes at the time "Dull Let me tell you Girl I was a bright spark at work.Held "Live wires while the sparky went for a break.my hair went from "Curly to "Straight!!
    jhharlan

    Ha ha, and you couldn't converse either......

    Yes.... and it's horrible.  At least that was my experiences.  Sad Sad Sad.


    Your's may turn out better.  You just never know.


    Honestly, you are your own person.  If you don't want to date someone then don't. 

    philipdalton

    In my personal case they just wouldn't leave me alone. "She loves you!" "You're seeing her or else we all give you a beating".
    Ironically when the person themselves does the pressurising it's called stalking, but it's perfectly OK for others to do the pressurising on their behalf.

    My illustrious sister convinced me to go out with one of her "dates" and I really ended up regretting not saying "NO" as it became a nightmare for me ...guy was a criminal!!!I was a much younger person then and easily swayed in an effort to "please" my sister and mother who both pressured me to go out with this creep...so my advice is ...Just say NO!

    I was and I did not do it...

    lindilou

    Good for you val!I wish I had had your conviction at the time of my awful "date"!!Well I do now!!!
    dowsa

    Dont know "what you might have "missed ?
    valR

    cannot disagree but no regrets!

    Yes. I was totally rude to him. He really was a nice boy, but I felt so betrayed and took it out on him.

    dowsa

    Bet he is a "Lonely boy now "
    Ann

    That was a long time ago. He is actually happily married and was the president of large bank in Germany.

    Took an old frind to her prom and then spent the day after with her and her friends, turned out real bad. She got drunk and really depressed. Still gives me pause when I think about it. 

    Oh, I did this twice when I was young- both difficult.  One of them fell for me and would not leave me alone.  The other was a creep.

    My present wife chased me until I tired and gave up. She tells me her girlfriends were egging her on. True story....

    yes, I went out on a blindt date. Roger and I talked a little bit. He patted on my head to say good night.

    doolittle

    Roger..that may be my cousin...he got odd doolittle genes- he thinks everyone is a dog- thus the pat on the head. The next date might have ended with a tummy rub-LOL
    fjoel

    I felt like a dog or a cat. That was that only date. tummy rub does sound good though.

    Yes, got talked into taking a friend of a friend out for dinner. Looked fine, good family, nice ride. The worst breath I ever smelled. I kissed her car goodnight.  



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