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You may just have to tolerate it, because it is self - love, and you can do nothing about psychopathic people who love themselves. If he does anything to you, get out of the house and into a shelter, or to a nearest relative. Do not feed his vanity. He has enough of that already. Some people try to pander to the self-love people by being "Yes" men, that does not work, it merely increases their arrogance and they then become brutal. It is also a symptom that is not often recognised by the person who suffers from it.

nar·cis·sism

Inordinate fascination with oneself; excessive self-love; vanity.

2. Psychoanalysis . erotic gratification derived from admiration of one's own physical or mental attributes, being a normal condition at the infantile level of personality development.

Buy him a two  way mirror and a bottle of booze, see what he loves more..

Play pin the tail  on the narcisistic donkey on a high place

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