25 Answers
Why reward a child for chores that are required of him/her. Let them find other ways to earn money such as doing odd jobs around the house.
12 years ago. Rating: 15 | |


I think daily chores and household duties are being part of the family! Maybe a list of volunteer jobs Things that are not the usual chores could be a money thing. Post a list. Sweep the driveway, pick branches out of the yard. You can take the job or not- no pressure. Earning a couple dollars is nice. If the kids don't do, you will ,but they might jump on it.
12 years ago. Rating: 12 | |
Rewarding for doing what they are supposed to do makes no sense. There are things in life we must do and are expected to do. Family responsibilities deserves no compensation. They already get food, shelter, clothes and of course love.. What else should we give them?? I was lucky though, my parents owned a restaurant and i could always go there and work to raise a little extra cash if I wanted something. Usually waitresses would tip me for cleaning tables. But at home, that was a responsibility.
12 years ago. Rating: 11 | |
I don't see any harm in rewarding them with cash or treats as long as they do a good job, but I don't think they should expect it. and I don't think it's a good idie to encourage them to expect it. I remember when I was a kid I used to run erronds for my brothers and sisters and they would give me 6 pence enough for a chocolate bar , I didn't get pocket money or anything like that without doining something for it.
12 years ago. Rating: 8 | |
Kids think they deserve everything. The idea of "earning" something is almost lost. This is true of too many adults, too.
I definitely think they should help out around the house, for many reasons. This would also make them less likely to make a mess and then go walking off and leaving it for someone else to clean up. But, if a kid is doing a good job helping around the house, getting good grades in school...I don't think it hurts to show a little appreciation for their efforts, along with recognizing their achievements.
12 years ago. Rating: 7 | |
Money is a great incentive, as is the promise of an item of interest. Dangling the carrot has its place, but contributing to the family by doing chores, and doing your best in school should be their "own reward". It's like Chris Rock said, "Why give praise for doing something you are supposed to do?" He was much funnier, but the point was made. We need to show kids that just doing the right thing is enough...there doesn't always have to be "something in it for me".
An allowance is a good idea, and teaching the child how to save, plan, and budget is a good idea to accompany that allowance. Give them a ledger book with the first installment and help them learn to keep track of their expenditures. Show them how to save for something they want. Good bonding time, invaluable lessons, and you can teach by example.
12 years ago. Rating: 4 | |
Yes. Teaches them the value of money. They do not spend as much frivolously. They become good budgeters. They also become excellent negotiators on rates and values. The larger the job, the higher the price that you have to pay. I find that washing cars is the highest because dads are too lazy to do the jobs themselves. :) improves their communication, debating and talk back skills to a "T". You may have a politician in the making as well ;).
12 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
I can't afford to give an allowance but I can afford to provide them with everthing they need and want .However, when I was a kid among six my Paw would threaten us with "NO BEATING" whenever we'd ask for an allowance...hah!!
12 years ago. Rating: 2 | |
I think kids should get pocket money for some chores..washing their parents cars,gardening and stuff like that..but Parents don`t have it easy either...should your mum/dad have to tidy your bedroom?..Would you tidy theirs??...washing the dishes shouldn`t kill you!!??!..AND helping out generally..give and take:-¬....Prepares you for adult life!!...and cheers the parents up!!...(God I`m going to be hated by you kids)!!LOL!:-0
Set the boundaries with your parents...work out what tasks you think are money deserving..and it will be a happier home!!
have fun!
millie xx
12 years ago. Rating: 2 | |