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    i am a 72 yr old widower and love to wear womans lingerie. is this normal?

    +7  Views: 1513 Answers: 32 Posted: 12 years ago
    Darci13

    Well dunno depends on how one would define normal but can do without any visuals though and hope you don't wear the butt floss kind.....

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    I don't think you will get your answer here as some people are going to say it is not normal and some will say it is normal.If you are comfortable in what you are doing then "so be it".

    Doesn't matter..... enjoy.

    Nope.

    If it makes you feel good, and doesn't harm anyone, do it. I don't think men should wear women's clothes. That's just my opinion. It's a little kinky, but some people are into that. Not much surprises me anymore.

    I think its called cross dressing. Its not against the law, but its not the norm either.

    It doesn't  contravene any law but......................... ?   

    Now our days some would accept it, but certainly no one i would know or want to know.

    Colleen

    Moderator
    I'm sure he's very relieved by that! I bet you made his day :) What a day to make his day on too. Valentine's Day. God smiles on you for being so open and loving :)
    By the way, in case you're confused, cross dressing does not make a person gay.

    Very normal, for a Transvestite.

    Bob/PKB

    I'm starting to like you, Yonmon. :D
    hector5559

    Thank you Bob,i like you as well.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    @ Hector: Your name is Yonmon?

    Yonmon, you need to research some. I do not believe he is a tranny. Educating yourself before you speak is key to not looking close minded. Then again if you wish to look the part, then go for the gusto!
    Yonmon

    Now Now Coleen, I never said I thought he was a trasnvestite,and if you do your research you will find my answer is FACT.
    witchway

    Cross-dressing and being a transvestite is not the same.
    Yonmon

    O.K. witchway. I will change my answer to Normal for a Trasvestite or a cross-dresser, I.m sure he feels a lot better now.

    No, sir. That is NOT "normal".  

    Colleen

    Moderator
    What exactly is normal? Women wear men's clothing. Is that normal? I have know women (straight) who wear boxers. Never thought it was abnormal. Maybe because people view me as abnormal so I know how the comment affects a person to be called not normal.
    Daisy!

    It's not the norm, but it doesn't harm anyone in private. Still it makes you wonder.......
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Then it's not normal for women to wear men's clothing. We should slam them all with the abnormal card! Get the signs ready and hit the streets! H3ll to the no on women in men's clothes!!
    FISH-O

    I don't think it's that weird... I love nice things and I also wear cute boxer shorts to bed in the summer time... If I were him I would envy my underwear drawers... I have back up underwear drawers... seriously.
    Think about American farming and food ... now that is not normal ... M------O! ... We will own all seeds! ... Far more harmful than a man wearing sweet underwear! I hope he buys French Lace.
    doolittle

    Bob- I accidentally hit the TD button. I cancelled it and gave you a TU. Please make sure the TD didn't register-if it did I'll ask a moderator to fix it. As I'm not "normal" and I've seen alot, and know of people wearing opposite sex clothing for comfort (or whatever) and believe many peole do this without anyone having a clue...it's cool with me.
    Bob/PKB

    doolitle: not to worry. :D

    weird but few things are abnormal nowadays...

    Normal is what's normal for you to quote an old commercial...........

    mycatsmom

    What commercial was that, jh ?
    jhharlan

    Haley's MO comes to mind...I think or milk of magnesia...........

    Can you post a picture of you in lingerie and we'll take another poll?  If it looks good on you, go ahead.  If it doesn't, remove the mirror.

    mycatsmom

    to Chian, We don't need a pic of him dressed in lingerie on here; but maybe you said that tonge in cheek
    Ducky

    Moderator
    Do you think? LOL!!!!!!
    Chiangmai

    @ Ducka, I try to maintain an open mind. :)
    Darci13

    NO no visuals pleeseeeeeee

    I wore a pair of nylon pantyhose for a holloween costume. I couldn't stand the feeling of nylon on my skin. It completly freaks me out as to how women can wear that material all day. I like 100% cotton clothes on my body. As far as the question at hand goes: Wear it if you want. I won't tell.

    Just be careful when you are crossing the road. If you get knocked down and taken to hospital.......................................................?

    hector5559

    Best answer ,lol,

    whatever floats your boat.

    What ever floats your boat > There are worse things . At 72 you may as well just go with what you enjoy . HMMMMMMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmm Thats my comment .

    Damn thats the kind of sh!t you should keep to yourself.

    Colleen

    Moderator
    Why does it affect you so much? What part of you does it spark?

    I should be so bold as to say, HOORAY!  Good for you and be yourself!

    Colleen

    Moderator
    Well, you've got the BOLD down, lol
    FISH-O

    I must say that I am a woman and everyone here knows that I think all clothing, even the ones others can not see are important... Make sure you are matching darling!
    FISH-O

    ... And never throw the pink ones out if you buy in bulk!
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Hahahaha! They make good dust rags :)
    FISH-O

    THINK PINK!
    doolittle

    Fishy I knew you would have the best answer! Why you look like a fish!
    Poppy3

    Fish Fry - I agree with you. I think he is very bold and I commend him for saying it and of course doing it as many people are so narrow minded. Like you say good for him whatever - who cares. I was amazed once when I saw the husband of a lady I knew walking down the street dressed as a woman - wow I thought that's brave and this was ages ago.

    One you are 72, even tho that does not matter.  Two you can do exactly what you want to do as long as you are not crossing the boundaries of others.  have fun enjoy your cross dressing! and whatever else you want to do in the privacy of your own castle!

    You've got a mixture of answers, if you feel you need to do that and it's not affecting anyone else, just do it. by the way it's not cup of tea.

    Where is Fishy???

    Colleen

    Moderator
    She's busy, busy, busy with real life stuff. No time to play like she usually does :(
    doolittle

    double :( ....She would give the best answer to this Q!!!! Tell her I say hey!
    Dollybird

    Fishy .is gone fishing.

    ""Who cares, go ahead.

    Daisy!

    Wicked! LOL!!
    hector5559

    you are my kind of girl eggy,are you free.???????????
    Dollybird

    pythonlover, its not normal, but your not the first, and wont be the last, what ever makes you happy.

    That would probably depend on who you asked. But, you might want to keep in mind that it would probably be a little embarassing if you ever had to go to the hospital!

    You can wear what you wish.  I think women started wearing "men's" clothing long ago. In pioneer days, you would never see a woman in trousers. In fact womens trousers used to have zippers in back of pants. Buttons on womens shirts were on opposite side as mens.  So in the dressing area women surged on to be comfy!

    I think live and let live if it makes you happy,and does not infringe others peoples privitcey,

    I'm sure that started with you a long time ago, and has nothing to do with the fact that you're over 70, or a widower. Maybe you feel more free to do it now, b/c there's no one there.  It's not exactly common, if that's what you mean, but it's not in the APA of abberations. As long as you're not imposing your hobby on anybody, or spending every waking hour doing it, it's fairly harmless. And if it doens't interferer with the other areas in  your life. You'll just have to find a partner who will accomadate you.

    Maybe you should be asking your psychologist this question and see what he or she says? 

    Colleen

    Moderator
    At 70, who really cares exactly and what harm is he doing? Is it really unhealthy? I don't think it's really a psychiatric problem.
    leeroy

    True. Who knows, it sounds like he's worried he's not normal and sometimes it takes a professional opinion to help us understand our behavior or comfort us... I get a kickback from Dr. Jones, lol.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Very true Leeroy.

    Yes. I wear men's construction boots to work almost everyday. I don't care what anyone else thinks and you shouldn't either.

    hector5559

    I find this a right turn on,are they Dr, Martins????????
    witchway

    No, they are Timberlands.

    I don't know about normal (whats normal anyway?) but go right ahead, it's not hurting anyone

    Are you going through a second childhood? Does your mother know?

    Colleen

    Moderator
    He's 72. Do you suppose his mother is still alive?
    figtree3

    He seems to still have plenty of life in him!
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Wearing underwear does not require a lot of energy. lol
    figtree3

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