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    Does anyone out there have any sibbiling that don't talk to u or have anything to do with your whole family?

    +7  Views: 835 Answers: 9 Posted: 12 years ago
    shaykarkev11

    Yes, I feel your pain.

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    No but i do have one that t i wish wouldn't talk to us(sometimes) , don't get me wrong i love her and care, but the only time we hear from her is when she's drinking or needs money.She has a seven tear old daughter in which my wife and me love and support,We've paid their phone bills, electric bills ,rent,groceries the list goes on, i wouldn't mind so much but she always seems to have money for booze and cigerattes now how frustrating is that. her husband was recently laid off but gets up each day and tries to find work ..anything, while she's a hopeless couch commando.

    I just recently started talking to my brother again. He has an ego as big as a planet. We will undoubtedly be at it again soon though. I thought that we would be the exception and not get mental after our stepfather died and left an insurance policy with a substantial amount of money, (most of which was going to me). He has decided to challenge the policy. So I'm ready again for another court battle. He lost the last time and he will lose this time. Unfortunately I lose a brother in the process.

    Yvonne57

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    I've often heard that money will do that to families, I'm sorry it has happened to you.

    I don't speak to my sister and haven't done for years, she is an alcoholic, dope smoking bludger that has ripped off our system and taxpayers for years, she cries poor to my mum , a pensioner and she digs into her pocket and continues to give her extra money, she has 2 children and when they were little I would go over and take them when I knew she was stoned or drunk, or both just so I knew they would be fed and bathed.Fortunately they have grown up to be lovely young adults (who knows how) her latest was an attempt to have mum put in a nursing home so she could have the house!

    Yvonne57

    Moderator
    Thank goodness her children have you. I'm sure your influence has helped them grow into good people.
    lambshank

    Thanks Yvonne57, they are really terrific kids that deserved better

    I have learned the hard way to not have anything to do with my toxic so called family.  And it will remain that way.

    Yvonne57

    Moderator
    I'm sorry to hear that Darci13, don't you ever wish for contact with them again?
    Darci13

    Nope do not like liars and thieves and druggies I am not one of those and choose to not have that in my home.
    Yvonne57

    Moderator
    You are lucky that you are strong enough to be able do that.
    Darci13

    Yes I have to be I am completely on my own was when taking care of Mom too. I do not hate them just learned that some people you have to keep them out of your life.

    Yes, My sister she's 47yrs old hasn't had anything to do with my Mom and step-dad for over a year now.  We had to drop her son off and I called and told her not to ignore Mother in front of me.  So, when she pulled up she said "Hi Mom, Yvonne told me not to ignore you in front of her.  Needless to say a big argument broke out between her and my Mom over her not saying hello on her own.  I feel stuck in the middle since I don't want to give her an ultimatum of talk to Mom or I'll never talk to you again.  I just can't do that.  I don't know what to do about it.  I think it is something they are going to have to work out between themselves.  What do you do about it?  r/yvonne57

    lambshank

    I think your right yvonne, they need to work it out, best to stay out of it or risk alienating yourself as well

    My housemate (James) is on the outs with his family.  They all think he's crazy and a criminal and won't let anybody defend him..........

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    Yvonne57

    Moderator
    Yes fish fry, it is painful isn't it?

    Familys sometime they are just a pain in the neck but we just have to except them for being them though I dont for give them

    My late sister was like that.She cut herself off from the rest of the family and did some really nasty malicious "pranks".Got to the stage where i was prepared to take legal advice about her.However,she also had mental health issues..........It was only after she passed away did i make my peace with her as it was me that made all the information on her death certificate was accurate(her so called" friends")hadnt got a clue about birthdates,work history etc.I had and made sure it was exact.Now?I hope she rests in peace



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