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    WHAT MAKES A MAN "SEXY"?

    .....AND, IF YOU ARE A MAN ANSWERING THIS, ARE you SEXY???

    +11  Views: 1350 Answers: 23 Posted: 12 years ago
    Bob/PKB

    THIS QUESTION WAS ALSO ASKED 9 MONTHS AGO. Your answers are MUCH more interesting than the answers from "yore".
    Bob/PKB

    pioneer2 asked me for an answer to this question, which is in a comment to pioneer2. It's probably weird. :D

    23 Answers

    A man who looks in your eyes while speaking and pays attention to the conversation. He is neatly dressed and clean. He has a nice smile. And a tight end helps!

    ROMOS

    It,s always said that us Scots are tight,lol....KOTF.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    @ KOTF, Your kilts should be so tight,lol
    clu

    What's under the kilt?
    Colleen

    Moderator
    What are you talking about Umbriel? Where do you see star wars or the force here?
    clu

    Umbriel doesn't know about King of the Fleas!
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Ahhh, now I get it, lol...> KOTF < dang ROMOS and his title. lmao
    Nope, not star wars. ;)
    Bob/PKB

    Good answer, clu, and gotta agree with you those are very attractive traits.

    Listener, funny, respectful, not necessarily in that order, or so I,m told.

    wonderer

    with all do respect......what?
    ROMOS

    And I do respect you too.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    You call this sexy? No wonder you're king of the fleas.
    ROMOS

    That,s very hurtful to my fleas Ms C, they have nothing but respect for the alpha flea,ME.....KOTF.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Great, so they respect you BUT, do they think you are sexy? ;)
    ROMOS

    Wouldn,t that be a bit strange? It would be like my son or daughter calling me " sexy " they are my family for goodness sake....KOTF.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    lmao, but not all the fleas are related to you.
    michmar118

    That's a great start......
    Bob/PKB

    Yeah, I'm not sure those things are "sexy". Do you think those qualities would make a woman sexy or a good buddy to share a beer with on Wednesday night?
    ROMOS

    Should I just have been shallow ROMOS and mentioned " good ass, nice t**s, real looker " then?

    Personality.........(humor, manners, respect, adventuresome....)

    A man that doesn't lose his head..........lol

    Bob/PKB

    If he loses his head over my pretty little ol self, it helps in the "he's sexy" department.
    Headless Man

    OK that way...........lol

    Me standing next to him...lol

    Bob/PKB

    You are one of the most self-deprecating people I've ever known.
    daren1

    It's not so much i under estimate my self it's more like i consider others first....beside what i meant was standing next to me meant your sexy just to be near me..lol
    Bob/PKB

    OH HO! Not self-deprecating in the least!

    Sexy. A four letter word with 40 different interpretations. Some women prefer a clean smelling man who doesn't know what grease under his fingernails is. Others find a man sexy who usually has some trace of grease on them and smells of Nitro- methane instead of cologne. Some women prefer a listener, others a man who can dominate an intelligent conversation. Every woman has different needs and those needs dictate what is sexy. Looks are important if a woman needs to be seen with an attractive man even though he may conduct himself like the village idiot. So in the end it's what needs, need to filled.

    Bob/PKB

    Good imagery. I'm not a fan of cigarettes, for example, but I remember a guy from college who had the combined smells of some sort of minty breath mixed with tobacco, mixed with an attitude....he wasn't all that much to look at, but he was sexy as far as I was concerned. Smell is important.

    Intelligence, groundedness, great hygiene, his undivided caring attention to a woman, and most of all, as Umbrielle stated, a great spiritual connection!

    I'd have to say, charming, moderately attractive at least, confortable in any situation, and rumors of a possible distant relative named Seabiscuit.

    Bob/PKB

    Seabiscuit? Say what????
    Bob/PKB

    OH, NOW I GET IT!!!! That would be nice. :D

    many things depending on species.

    valR

    that nobody can explain but speculate and/or be obsessed/preocupied with

    Strong, independent, caring, likes to laugh, has an even tempered nature, is secure enough within himself that he doesn't let a lot shake him, inrelligent, and has a courage within himself that he doesn't feel that he has to push it in anyone's face but knows when to rise to the occasion. Beyond that, he doesn't need Viagra to show his response, likes to please a woman, is faithful, has at least moderately good looks and physical attributes and good hygiene.


    As for myself, being sexy is something I don't aspire to these days. Maybe back when I was younger and enjoying all that life had to offer a young man. But today, I'm content just being me, and simply being accepted as the person I put forth.


    Believe it or not, when I was younger, I was into body building for awhile, and I had developed an extremely good build. In just a simple thing as getting on a subway in a Tee-shirt and jeans, I would see women do a double-take, and see a certain look come into their eyes. That wasn't my imagination either, as at certain events, some women would make comments like, "I'd love to have you do some push ups on me."  But, you know, that actually got kind of old after awhile...as they weren't looking at the person, but more the physique. I then knew what well built women went through, in feeling like you were being looked at like a piece of meat rather than a person.


    Today, I'm just a pot bellied old man, who is happy just being myself. I don't have to prove anything to anybody, and I enjoy a simple life in that aspect. So, no, I guess I wouldn't consider myself sexy. I'm just me!  

    valR

    Excellent selfportrait/analysis. I like the "don't have to prove anything to anybody" part...
    Bob/PKB

    ......Sexy doesn't have to prove anything. Neither do you. Make the connection???
    valR

    Agree. Help me seeing the connection please, would you?

    O.K. I trimmed my eyebrows, what's the next step?


     

    Bob/PKB

    Carry yourself sensuously without it being an effort! I've seen it and tripped over my tongue, but can't explain it. :D

    someone with the confidence to listen instead of trying to sell themselves, someone to laugh with, generous with time, and genuine interest in life, also a really nice car helps.

    his sexappeal

    michmar118

    Great, simple answer!

    How bout you tell us  ......  so we can work on it.......... 

    Bob/PKB

    Gave this some thought and this may sound odd:
    I love the feel of a guy's illiac fossa. When I can feel that through his clothes, or when he is lying on his side and I can run my hand over that bone and the skin is smooth and flat around it (no saggy belly fat)...that does it for me! THAT IS SEXY.
    We are talking physically arousing here, purely physical. :D Did this make sense?
    ROMOS

    Makes perfect sense to me Lady P,purrrrffect sense....KOTF
    pioneer2

    Hmmmmmmm. Had to look that one up. We're all working on that now B/PKB.
    Bob/PKB

    :D I had to look it up, too.
    valR

    I like your definition and in any case much better than some of this word synonyms such as "libidinous" and "libidinous" synonyms: carnal,lascivious,lecherous, obscene, prurient, salacious, sensual, wanton,wicked...

    Ok. I am sexy. How do I know? When I walk into a bar all the girls smile and their male escorts standup ready to fight or leave hauling their smiling, laughing girls with them. When my OL is with me, a few words out of her mouth and everyone leaves.   

    Colleen

    Moderator
    It's the orange slice ;)
    robertgrist

    Teeth guard.
    Bob/PKB

    How is that sexy?
    robertgrist

    Love potion #9
    Bob/PKB

    You guys are nutters. Both of you.

    Sexy Arousing or tending to arouse sexual interest or desire.


    Adonis was  the sexiest man ever.He aroused the goddess of love and beauty Aphrodite sexual interest and desire. 

    Bob/PKB

    It is almost comical how a dictionary, of all places, will use a derivative of the word it is defining to assist in defining the word. Sexy: .....arouse sexual..... why not use a word for sexual (carnal, perhaps?) to clear up doubt. Thanks for the answer, valR! Is it AM or PM for you? Your answer was posted 10 min. ago.
    valR

    You are welcome. It is 1:28 PM now.

    Umbriel:  You old fox you ..........

    You tell me,   what would you look for?...................you are in a better postion to answer this then I would be..........

    Bob/PKB

    I answered this at pioneer2's answer. It's just something I find physically arousing. Everyone has it. :D
    Mr.Den

    Ooookkkkkk, Dear Bob/PKB

    Have you heard of some sexy men (in the eyes of some women) are not only unsexy but simply repugnant to others?

    Was/is former POTUS Bill Clinton a sexy man?

    Bob/PKB

    Not to me. Not bad looking, but not at all sexy.
    valR

    he was libidinous
    Bob/PKB

    Scum of the earth. I always felt humiliated FOR Hilary because she didn't have sense enough to be humiliated on her own.

    If you can have a meeting of the mind with a man and then a meeting of the sprit and then a meeting of the body, that's sexy.

    Bob/PKB

    I'm praying for that guy to come into my life! :D

    As a night shift worker (and theyre long shifts)all he wears in bed is a knackered expression! Im usually getting out of bed as hes collapsing into it!All the uniform is is black top,trousers and boots but  hes one of the few people i know that can carry itAnd he reallhy does not like it at all!!!

    Deejay,i agree with your mam,its that smile!!But,what are you like in a uniform????My other half wears one for work and while he doesnt like it,i reckon he looks pretty good in it.!



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