Bob/PKB
when you've been hurt in a relationship, and the relationship is over, it's time to move on mentally, physically, emotionally. I'm past the caring FOR and am now just P.O'd and resentful. It's possible those feelings are directed at myself!! Any tips on getting beyond THIS stage?
5 Answers
pioneer2
I sympathize with you Bobett because I know its a feeling that sucks. And I know its easy to say .. time .. heals. But. Other than to keep busy and not dwell on the past it is the answer. Maybe find something you enjoy and do more of it.
Best Wishes
| 12 years ago. Rating: 5 | |
ROMOS
Time with your family, time with your colleagues, time with your hobbies, time without troubles,time to think,time alone, time without a relationship,give it time,in time all will be clear, have a good TIME!...R.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
doolittle
Bob- I think missing comes first, then mourning, then anger, then acceptance, and finally being ready to move on. So, take heart you are closer than you think. Its also natural to go back and forth with these emotions. I think it is maturity that allows you to "own" some of the problems in a relationship. It's a learning experience! You are a lovely woman with a lot to offer! Your questions and answers prove that! When you are ready I pray that someone very special comes into your life!!!
| 12 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
Shootah
Be kind to yourself, and just remember that all men are not like your ex. Enjoy some of the things you hadn't allowed yourself to enjoy while you were in the relationship. The thing to also remember is, that it is the beginning of a new chapter in your life...as one door closes another opens. If you are just half as nice, as you are pretty...you'll have someone that will adore you in your life soon enough!
| 12 years ago. Rating: 2 | |
I'd really like to just forget about how much I would like to be in love WITH someone and focus on living!!!
Thank you again for taking time to give me a good answer.
Darci13
It is a process. I know this sounds really dumb but it works and helped me just try not to do it in a crowd as they might take you away whenever you think of that person scream as loud as you can NO, told ya it sounds dumb but it works and plus I packed up all things that reminded me of him that he had given me in a box now that I have moved don't know which box LOL which is a good thing.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 2 | |
