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    how can i have a happier life??????

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    Get involved in it.  Don't be a by-stander.  Don't be a victim.  Hang out with positive people.  Take up a new hobby.  Laugh.  Don't use alcohol or drugs.  Sing.

    leosmaml

    Brilliant answer Ducka!Wish id said that
    Ducky

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    Next time leosmaml...haha. Seriously, thanks for the compliment.
    Bob/PKB

    EXCELLENT! I WROTE THAT DOWN ON A NOTECARD TO CARRY WITH ME!
    Ducky

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    Thank you for your kind words.

    Take a Positive Attatude= walk =get involved with helping others who need it =you will benefit from this sooner than you think good luck

    Happiness starts within...Update your attitude and the world will fall in a better place.............

    Bob/PKB

    ABSOLUTELY! HAPPINESS STARTS INSIDE A PERSON; THE WHOLE WORLD CAN BE BOWING AT YOUR FEET AND BRINGING YOU GIFTS GALORE, BUT IF YOU HAVE A HEAVY HEART, NOTHING BRINGS YOU JOY.

    Just be happy are you in good "health no worries money wise .Then just think of the "poor souls who are "fighting Ill health .Would you like to change places with them .Get a "life stop moaning.are just a young person fed up "well take on board "What I said ,even young people are Ill with "Cancer .Think yourself "Lucky.

    Write “All I choose is happiness for me today”, on a simple card that is next to where you sleep. Read that when you awaken in the morning. Another on the refrigerator, Another anywhere you frequently go to. Read it out loud and with every choice you make during your day….choosing happiness is a gift you give yourself and a way of rejecting any activity that is not happy. When you choose to be happy in doing an unpleasant task, the task becomes easier to do and can even be fun. Taking good care of your body is something happy people do because health and feeling fit is part of the result of choosing to be happy. Have a happy day and smile to everyone you see. When others criticize your happy smile or seek to drag you back into their morose doldrums and despair, think of a happy thought and ask them to join you in a happy thing to do  like going to an art fair, a lecture on love poems or to an up-beat church or a Saturday night Laugh in….comedy club. The world is full of happy opportunities …..they are the only opportunities worth being part of.  

    Bob/PKB

    When my kids and I were having problems after my husband/their dad took off, my sister printed the serenity prayer several times and stuck it around our home. It definitely helped....some. The constant reminder is what helps, as you have pointed out!

    ask christ he can help.

    Turn your radio on.Get with the programme. get involved in something that gives you satisfaction.

    Sometimes just small things can make you happy.For example ,i dont like being out in the dark but this evening took my dog for a walk down the estate.He enjoyed it,so did i.I left home at home and cleared my head

    Happier life!  I would like that as well, and I've been doing a lot of thinking about what I think would make me happier.   In no particular order:
    1.  taking better care of my home and yard
    2.  spending time with the dog...playing, going for a walk
    3.  petting the cat when she sits on my lap and appreciating her purr (I do this already)
    4.  keeping myself groomed (hair, makeup, clothes....looking nice, feeling better)
    5.  NOT sitting on my butt when I am home, aka-ing or playing Spider Solitaire
    6.  working on a project (jewelry, painting, writing, sewing, etc.)
    7.  exercising....swim, weights, treadmill, bicycle, walk, etc.
    8.  having a relationship spiritually (this goes into religion, so I'm just going to say that I am happier when my faith is strong)
    9.  set a timer for whine-time, crying, pity-party (then on to something productive)
    10.  COUNT MY BLESSINGS (not necessarily number them one-by-one, but really think about what IS good and positive)
    11.  Since I am "alone", I know I should get involved in activities that will give me opportunities to meet people and establish friendships.
    I'm sure there is more.   DUCKA had a superb answer for you. jhharlan gave you the secret. 



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