My thanks go out to you all and in particular to Winfia.

It was Winfia that got me roughly on the track and then I got the final solution from a "Geek".

 My photo file was too big so computor timed out when sending. The "Geek" showed me how to reduce the size of my photos in the hard drive so the problem was solved. This is how he told me for the rest of you dummies out there.

Bring up your photos and right click on a selected one, a drop down will come on the screen, scroll to RESIZE and left click.

Another screen will appear (mine was top lft hnd of screen) where you can choose from various "sizings" Left click on SMALL this is the top one on mine.

This will give you a new copy of that selected photo with the word SMALL attached. This is the one you send to AKA as follows.

Click on little tree icon,then UPLOAD then BROWSE go to my pictures and click on SMALL VERSION OF PHOTO TO BE SENT, then click on OPEN then back to  window and select UPLOAD and then "ASK.