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listen to your friends. ask questions. maybe they know something you dont. like maybe hes abusive, or a two timer  etc. i would want to know, myself. better safe than sorry!

The choice is yours to make,if your friends are telling you he not trustworthy,just be careful.Who knows, he might be a really nice guy.Only you can decide if he is right for you or not.

When emotions are involved it is better to listen to friends and family. However listen very closely, if their concerns are all the same they're probably right. You may be "love Stupid" right now.

They might know something about him you dont,my advice to you,be careful.

Next your friends will be saying, "we told you so!" Trust your gut instinct because it's usually spot on.

Are you butt ugly and desperate that you would choose this guy  when your friends say not too ??? The fact that you even consider asking this question tells me you don't value your friends . You are just not thinking straight. 

Wait and watch. What's the hurry?

They will still be against it later, right?

Unless he has a pocket full of Holiday gift cards.....

Maybe you can use him to manipulate your way back into your ex's life in time for the holidays!

That's just a poke....you can ask yourself later.

How small is your town?

Are you butt ugly and desperate that you would choose this guy  when your friends say not too ??? The fact that you even consider asking this question tells me you don't value your friends . You are just not thinking straight. 

My first thought is, "Do you want to date this guy?"
What makes your "friends" think he's untrustworthy?  
Is it necessary that you and your friends date the same people?  "They haven't been with him..." is a really strange comment to make.  I'd think most people wouldn't want to "share" somebody.....it sounds a little "Deliverance" to me.

Maybe a short date would be a good place to start; meet at a coffee shop or something simple and public.  I'm "assuming" that by "date" you mean spend time with this guy doing different things (excluding sex).   If I'm wrong and "date" means sex, I'm kinda grossed out that your friends Void him, at least in part because they haven't been with him.  That is just creepy.


 

Do what you want to not what they tell you to do and face the consequencies of your decision be it enjoyable or not so enjoyable it's your decision to make they may be missing something or predjudice for no reason the only way you'll find out is to take the plunge at the end of the day it is your decision and yours alone to make you'll either get on or you won't if you don't put it down to experience and move on if you do then all well and good it's called growing up . Good luck either way

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