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    My ex and I broke up after 9 years when I was in Europe, and after 7.5 months and her meeting a new guy whom 11 yrs youger than her for a rebund relationship for both, she came to Europe and asked me back and said that she is still in love with me, this guy means nothing and she wants to still marry me and have kkid with me... During the break up she kept emailing me and I never replied since she had been accusing me of cheating.... She kept asking my best friend if I were involved or not... So,

    My ex and I broke up after 9 years when I was in Europe, and after 7.5 months and her meeting a new guy whom 11 yrs youger than her for a rebund relationship for both, she came to Europe and asked me back and said that she is still in love with me, this guy means nothing and she wants to still marry me and have kkid with me... During the break up she kept emailing me and I never replied since she had been accusing me of cheating.... She kept asking my best friend if I were involved or not... So, I said ok and I came back home, but she still stayed in touch with that guy and when I found out she told me that she is more in love with him than with me, and during this time she kept saying that this guy was useing her for money and why didn't I rescue her and he is an alcoholic, an etc... then she told me that she is so mad at me for breaking her heart so bad and mad at her self to why she can forgive me and can stop being mad at me... Was I totally fooled for revange or just she is choosing him cause she can't forgive me??

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    So you wish to ask people who are not relationship experts advise that will affect lives. Words written here will change the course of three lives. Sounds like one big mess here and you need more help and expertise than I am able to offer. I am smart enough to know what I dont know. You need to understand this woman to see her motives. Its the small behaviour details that give insight into what she is all about.

    Poppy3

    Just love the bit "smart enought to know what I don't know. I also have respect for people who are able to say they do not know especially when it affects people's lifes.

    Make your own mind up

    WAY too much to read. Can you spell O V E R K I L L ?

    Sounds like it will work out fine.At least until she meets another younger bloke anyway.It's up to you muchacho but I know what I would be telling her & I don't think you want to hear it.

    So you wish to ask people who are not relationship experts advise that will affect lives. Words written here will change the course of three lives. Sounds like one big mess here and you need more help and expertise than I am able to offer. I am smart enough to know what I dont know. You need to understand this woman to see her motives. Its the small behaviour details that give insight into what she is all about.

    Sounds like you are still bring weaved in her web.............................But of course  I have only heard one side.......



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