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    Bill Maher stated on his TV program last night that 85% of our college graduates return to live at home after graduation!

    Can this really be true? My college grad nephew is still living at  home at 26 - but I thought he was an exception.

    +4  Views: 607 Answers: 5 Posted: 12 years ago

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    There's probably a lot of different ways to look at it. I see a lot of stereotyping going on, based upon the assumption that the parents are the ones financially helping their children. Families help each other for various reasons all the time. Have you ever heard of the term "Mother-in-law" apartment?"


    There's more perspectives and circumstances out there than what a movie or one's assumption readily conjures up.

    winfia

    I'm givng you Best Answer, Shotah. Well said.

     If Mom and Dad will welcome them home after having gone into debt, paying for college, why not?  That way, a graduate can have everything they want, RIGHT NOW...free food, laundry, cable, internet, car,  gas and insurance included, sleep in every morning, party every night and no responsibilities.  Did those parents ever tell their child...NO?  Funny how some kids can ALWAYS find a job and a little apartment somewhere. Those are the ones that make me proud.

    winfia

    I totally agree! My own kids both left home at 17 and did just ok, then quite well! My son with no college education runs a large trucking company and my daughter attained her Master's Degree in Social Work!
    Ducky

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    Yay! It can be done.

    Where I live it is very common for entire families (three generations) to live under one roof.  It is part of their culture.


    It's also very common for children to move back home after they have finished school because  the student debt that has to be repaid.  Real estate is also extremely expensive and just renting a basement suite costs a small fortune let alone a 400 square foot apartment.


    The way things are going ... my son will never leave home.

    I think it is prob pretty accurate... My hubby and I went to his 10 yr reunion.. We had 2 kids a mortgage and were taing care of out parents.... While only 3 of the people we talked to where not living with thier parents..  I cant imagine ....

    winfia

    After 10 years? That's incredible!

    So, why can't they live at home with their family? They can pay some rent and board and bingo.

    winfia

    My brother lived at home after college and did pay room and board. His son does not.


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