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I would feel betrayed and would not be able to trust him. I would move on.

OK as you know I can not answer about a husband but if my partner ever cheated on me even one time, I'd walk.  A relationship is not a true relationship if one has to roam.  I could never even fathom the thought of cheating on someone I was in love with. I could never believe someone was in love with me if they had to roam and be with another. That could never happen in my world and get a second chance to do it again. Once a cheater, always a cheater. I deserve better.  

Colleen

Yes. There is no difference. If I'm not enough, then I would set the other free to find what I could not give them.

I had this happen to me. I yelled for the first time in my life and walked out the door...he felt as if I had rejected him... go figure.  Knock me over the head with one thousand bricks and then I had to pay for it.

Now ... years later ... when I have to see him ... It's a pause and wonder moment.

I would decide if my relationship is worth saving... if not i would leave. If it was I would forgive but never forget.

I read the prostitute comment... I would be more upset about that than him sleeping with a friend. The STDs he could bring home not only shows a lack of respect for our relationship, but a lack of concern for my well being.

Colleen hit the nail right on the head.If he did it once he'll do it again.Once the bond has been broken it is seldom redeemable.

Take 50% of the toys, and haul ass.

Taking care of painting. It’s good to be back. There are some very special people here. You are one of them. xxxxx

Colleen

I do not envy you if it was painting walls. I hate to paint!

I would be broken. I’d have to move on.

Colleen

Welcome back. Where have you been?

Every once and a while i keep seeing a report that people cannot control themselves to stay faithful with one partner .

D-I-V-O-R-C-E the scumbag and move on.

I tell my wife next time ask… then it won’t be cheating.