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Never happened. Never met anyone worth risking losing my wife over. Sex was always great, were on the same page most of the time. We both have a similar temperament. We both know when to back off one another.

not in my vocabulary made love to only my Josie don t have to look else were .Feel sorry for the ones who do.

My first wife never trusted me, then became pregnant by another man. I guess you do as you suspect.

I have been  both   hurt and ben hurt    lesson   wisdom

If you cheat for what ever reason you are a coward first ,and scum forever . End it first and move on ,thats the right thing to do . If you betray a trust and your lover then you are garbage worthless human being . People who do this sort of thing are human trash,lying scum . May they live the rest of their days never having a friend again , may they get time after time what they have given ,every day betrayed by someone close to them . Gutless scum bags ,just end the relatioship and move on ,no need to be in two beds at once . I hope there is some kind of hideous painful justice for all the lying cheating dirt bags . Too bad they cant be branded on the forehead for all the world to see. If your word is no good then neither are you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Infidelity.... seems so ridgid and often means 'The End'. I have seen so many good relationships destroyed because of this one (in the overall scheme of life) error/mistake. If you are loved and you know this because you feel it, does this particular act obliterate everything you have, all that you are as a couple and everything you have built together? It seems so final and unforgiving to me, it doesn't make sense.   

Umbriel: Coward is the word of choice because some one who will not end it and move on is just that  a coward . Gutless as well !!!!!! Never mind the consequences in the next life . Betray your country and its called treason . Betray your Friend and lover and its called nothing . I think they are the same thing . In some cases its attempted murder it amounts to wanton disregard for the safety and well being of another . Some one who will stand nose to nose with you and kiss your lips while lying to you is as low as a human can be . Scum maybe other words apply as well ,end result is this kind of person is not worthy of a decent persons attention at all ever. Thats my opinion and I am sticking to it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  How hard can it be to man up and say Sorry this is not working and we should move on . Then you are free to do as you wish when good bye has been said . Thats it !!!!!! If you don't have the guts to say it then man or woman you are a coward and a traitor end of story ,no matter the reason or justification , Explain it to God !!!!!! I will not be in that line trying to BS the creator about why I thought it was right . LOL Good luck with that !!!!!!