kimba
10 Answers
Dollybird
Best answer!
Is he taking you for granted kimba. ? Get your own intrests, go out with friends, some times. Then he might sit up, and pay attention, and realize your not depending on him 100%
| 12 years ago. Rating: 2 | |
melandrupert
I am with missactive on this its called womans intuishions Cant spell the word ....you have that gut feeling and you know things are not right if you are getting this say good bye its too late I dont have to tell you the signs they are already there i hope I am wrong or try what vinnie has susjested this might work but as you have said pehaps he is fed up in making all the decisions why dont you make the effort and suprize him good luck
| 12 years ago. Rating: 8 | |
Vinny
Lack of interest in you, all the sweet things they did before are not happening now, no phone calls or less phone calls, finding faults with you, pointing out your mistakes often, not being able to reach them like you used to.. there's more, do you need anymore??
| 12 years ago. Rating: 8 | |
missactive
Kimba, the very fact that you are asking the question is a sign that something might not be quite right. I think Vinny's comments are helpful, if your partner shows no enthusiasm when you suggest different things this might be an indication that all is not well. I wish you luck,
| 12 years ago. Rating: 7 | |
Tommyh
He's packing a bag in the middle of the night when he thinks you are asleep.That's a dead giveaway!
His cell phone rings & he goes outside to answer it.
He's coming home from work later & later.
When you go to bed,he stays up to watch the late show.
He's mean to your cat.
When your family/friends drop in he goes out.
Yeah I know I'm making fun of your question.But you don't say why you are thinking this way.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 6 | |
She might check to see if he smells of expensive perfume (or cheap!)
Lipstick on the collar- or anywhere else.
Using the wrong name at the right time (If you get my drift)
Yes, like Melandrupert says, "It's an intuition" thing.
Good luck, Kimba. We've all been through it. (If those words help)
lambshank
maybe ask him, if there is a problem (and I think you already know there is) it might be best to discuss it openly and honestly, if needed ask him to go to a marriage counseler who can keep things on track and discussion can be maintained in calm manner. I think vinny had a good suggestion, perhaps a holiday or break from all the usual and often mundane reality of everyday life might help you both, good luck and I wish you well
| 12 years ago. Rating: 6 | |
kimba
Thats not making fun of it, its actually quite true. i just find it hard to make my own decisions and i always need confirmation on things- i wouldnt be here otherwise!
| 12 years ago. Rating: 5 | |
quietly, no drama - just leave.
Don't let him see you sweat or cry.
I'm not an expert and I'm simply saying what i would do. If I'm wrong I'm sure I'll be corrected by someone who comes along.
omg, I feel it for you!!
Chiangmai
matheneyg
bluesman1951
After reading all the answers I find myself agreeing with all of them .That little voice is given to you for guidance and you should be listening to it at all times . When in doubt ask face to face point blank and be prepared for the answer. Now for the one thing no one said : Life is sucking for all in ways never before imagined by this generation . Every thing is upside down and the day to day stress is at a all time high . There may be more going on that you know in relation to job and money that you know nothing of.. Maybe not ,perhaps the little voice speaks the truth and its time to exit . I dont know ,I do know breaking up sucks and I hope some how happiness finds its way into your life . May your road be smooth and the joys many . All my best Bill
| 12 years ago. Rating: 1 | |
