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Happy Birthday to Jenn &   Benthere Hope you both have had a good day let there be many more oxoxoxoox

To Jenn!

To Benthere!

HAPPIEST OF BIRTHDAYS TO YOU JENN!!! You were on my list but I was tied up at the doctor's office all day, having X-rays, MRI, the works!....thus just now came on line here....I hope you have at least 35 more and twice over that to boot!....(:

Think positively.  The birthday this year is special for you because so many freinds on this site wish you a VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!  We also wish you joy everyday by looking at the bright side of things.

Yes, me and I hate Christmas too.

Yvonne57

I hate the idea of all the commercialized hoopla at Christmas. I like my Birthday because it's on Thanksgiving every 4 years.

HAPPY  BIRTHDAY BENTHERE, I HOPE YOUR DAY HAS BEEN WONDERFUL !!!!!!!

       HAPPY  BIRTHDAY  JENN !!!!!  I HOPE YOU'VE HAD A WONDERFUL DAY !!!!!  LOVE YA.

jenn  -- you have the sweetest voice. 

Ole hipster ... you ok?  MRI's? Xrays? The works? Oh my.  i've been there, friend.

Birthdays suck, especially the last thirty. Going to remove all the mirrors from the house. To painful to walk by them. Just a mere shell of a man I once was.

Yvonne57

Really ed? I just can't believe it.

It's all in how you look at it,,,,,,if you think of it as a yearly funeral for yourself it's no wonder you hate your birthdays!   I agree that that aren't as much fun as they used to be, and I'm 48, but I try to live each month of each year with the good things I have about me, especially physically, and utilize them and appreciate them. Mental attitude has THE most power over how our lives will play out, more than any other factor and, so, for sure, seeking out and locating the good things abt your life and abt your health is the most beneficial thing you can do to improve the quality of your life as you grow older. Aging is inevitable, it's how you respond to it, for your own sake, that can make your life actually enjoyable as the years pass. And I speak this as a person who has struggled with mild to moderate depression throughout my life.  This is the one most important lesson I've learned from my experiences.

Just thank God that you are healthy; and that you've got a loving family ; and enough to eat; and a car that runs; and that your husb has a job. And that your kids are ok. And give your thanks to God that you made it this far. Embrace your b/day .

Jenn how can you be unhappy when you are so lovely to look at and have a loving heart, don`t expecpt others to see the world through your eyes but but do what you alone can do.

BE THE VERY BEST "YOU" THAT YOU can, nobody but nobody can make a better job of being you than you. Give `til it hurts but don`t expect anything in return because as sure as the sun rises in the east if you do you will be dissapointed.

Today is not your birthday, you only ever have one of those,but it is the anniversary of your birth and each anniversary will make you a stronger and better person until you are old and wise like me wink, wink.

If it is any consolation I also had severe depression, but with the help of a shrink and suitable meds I triumphed and became a better person than I had ever been.

Do this now, look over your right shoulder, see the light at the end of the tunnel?

Happy anniversary my sweet one.xxxx

Remember don`t wait for your ship to come in, swim out and meet it. In the grand scheme of things the best person to help you is you, so get off your,I am sure cute little butt and start swimming.(((X))) your lovebug

Keep smoking and your birthday will be a funeral