If you could change just one thing about yourself, what would it be? Why?

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    What would you change and why would you change it?

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    Good Question Leeroy LOL

    Thanks a lot Mel!

    LMAO You didn't piss me off Leeroy. :)

    I was just kidding with you, I have a dry sarcastic sense of humor sometimes people don't get it. Maybe a lot of times. lol.

    I decided to get a dog. I want something GLAD to see me when I walk through the door. Maybe THEN I won't be so angry and prone to temper tantrums.

    @TSC, I strongly suggest you pick up a book by Joel Osteen called,"Become a Better You." It's given me a new perspective on having a more positive outlook in life. It's just a great book, let me know what you think of it if you pick it up.

    That's true about the dog thing, even if your wife is pissed when you get home, at least your dog's happy to see you, Lol.

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    When I was young and dumb and did not listen to my parents. I am an only child and I married a US soldier (then) and left them all by themselves. I have regretted it for most of my life.


    sorry to here this Ann you should never have regrets I am sure you were just learning about your self and I bet you are a better person now they are just exsperiances LOL

    Thanks Mel. You are so understanding

    i am sure you were a good daughter,while you were with them,

    To be another 6-7'' taller, woman prefer tall men, so do job promotions.


    good things come in small packages.

    I regret not making better choices.

    there isnt anything I would change about my apperance but I would love to spell and read  as with Deslexia I also have short term memeory loss and I would love to be able to do maths Just give me a Better Brain Please!


    You are doing just fine Mel, most of us have our learning disabilities or things we're better at than others. Don't beat yourself up over it, I really enjoy your comments and answers. Keep up the good work.

    thanks Leeroy for your kind words LOL

    Like leeroy said Mel, you're doing just fine and we look forward to questions and answers. I think that you are an intelligent young lady.

    to Spaceghost thank you for your kind words :)

    my ability to comprehend and memorize things,reading good books is everything in life my problem is just as soon as i read somthing , i forget, so i've got to read somthing several times over.


    thats a really good answer daren1 TU lOL

    If i could start again i would do what i wanted all along, but i  did what my parents wanted and i have reggeted it to this day, join the Royal Australian Navy, i'm sure i would have loved it.

    Stop falling for hard luck stories. They have cost me dearly through the years, financially and emotionally.

    I would not change anything about myself. All the hurt, pain, and mistakes I have encountered though out my life is what made me the person I am today. Which I can honestly say, I am very proud of what I have become.


    Nice answer Pam. I'm proud of what I've become also, but there sure are a lot of things in my past that I wish I could erase.

    Thanks, Flip. Thank God it's in the past, something we don't have to return to. Mistakes are our teacher in life. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me! Only the wisest and the stupidest of men never change.

    Have a great weekend! :-)


    Not good for my heart or my relationship.


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    I can read, pray, take medication, walk away, take a deep breath or what ever ELSE works for some people..........IT DON'T WORK FOR ME IF I'M PIS*ED OFF. :(

    I'm sorry TSC, I didn't mean to piss you off, lol.

    That would be a very hard decision, because there's so many, my mind can't even process.


    I have an experimental time machine I've been working on, I'll let you know if I can get it running.LOl.

    How long can you lend it out,leeroy?lol

    I can lend it to you for a day or so, as soon as it's up and running. I'll add you to the list, all though don't be surprised if I show up last week. lol.

    leeroy, that's my life, always a day late and a dollar short, also if, it wasn.t for bad luck, I wouldn't have any luck at

    I would change the death of my brother.  I had just turned 16 and he was 20.  It changed everyone in my family, especially my mother.  That is when you realize what the important things in life really are.  One good thing I got from it was to treasure what I have everyday, you never know what tomorrow will bring.  Because of this, I have tried to change things about myself to make my life better everyday I hope I have succeeded.  But I still can't spell so I guess that is maybe one thing I would change.  But I do like where I am in my life.


    Sorry to hear about that, but it sounds like you have dealt well with the situation.

    Thank you. Your right I would only change it because I miss him, but I have change my life and done lots of good things because of it. That is how life is sometimes it takes a bad situation to bring out the good in all of us.

    Great attitude to have! When life give you lemons make lemon aid.
    To slow down.I think then rush to type, comes out all wrong it is not what i wanted to say.not to hurt anyone. To you Umbriel girl "dont be harsh on yourself.Beauty is only in the eye of the beholder it"s whats inside that counts the "Heart i bet you have a big one. Have faith in yourself I am going on 74 feel 44 because i have a good life and "wife.

    if i could go back in time with the knowledge i have now, things would be a lot different. i have a lot of regrets. i have so many God cant count them all! lol!


    I sometimes think the exact way, but I believe that contribute to my depression, so I stop myself and change the station so to speak.

    I know exactly what how you feel, just try to stay positive, everything happens for a reason. Thanks for you honest comment C.M.

    I would add another hand coming out of my stomach area. That way I could open the door with a load of groceries in my arms.

    I would learn to play a musical instument. Anything,harmonica,piano,bagpipes,anything.


    how bout a triangle? lmao !!!!!

    I would want better health and I would be, looks etc. are unimportatnt to me

    I would hope to one day be half as good a person as Oliver thinks I am........

    my temper the meter that keeps me away from beating the hell out of someone

    I think I would like to abolish my depression, I struggle with it very often and I don't have that same get up and go as I used to have. So if I could get rid of it all together I would. I am trying though, but my Workman's comp doctor won't prescribe me Lexapro, they don't want to spend any extra money on my case. It's ridiculous how penny pinching they are, it would be cheaper just to listen to the patient. Eventually they are gonna have to treat the whole injury, but right now they are doing as least as possible.

    Life isn't like your eyes are limits to what it can see at a moment,we look and cannot see in space without the help of a telescope,or a microscope ,that tell me the eyes are very limited to what it can see,there for are brain is also very limited to what it can comprehend.,in the big picture of our existence.How about having a brain with no existence or limits of our mind over matter.?















    i din't know of is hard to improve on

    I would change my moral compass so that I could lie and cheat  and steal without any worries just like all the other bu$$ers who seem to get on so well and live in luxury while I live in genteel poverty. Being Good is its own reward but by the Lord harry I wish it came with a few accessories. At least my two ex-wives live the $ood life.

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