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    WHATS YOUR DEFINiTION OF A LOSER ?

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    doublehelix

    theres no such a thing as a loser, everyone was born on in this world to contribute to something, wether little or much , every creature has it's purpose, every creature was born with a certain skill, may be visible , may be not, you are nobody to judge anybody, god didn't create a human being to make him feel like a loser, god created him to contribute to something,

    doublehelix

    nobody should judge anybody, because in the end , no matter how much you achieve in this life, your a weak human being who will always go to sleep at night , a human being who will always be weak no matter what, so leave the judgment of losers and winners to god and god only.

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    I think most of the world views a loser as someone who doesn't have much stuff, or has scrubby clothes, and if he or she even drives a car, its a piece of crap. Basically the less fortunate people, on the psychological side someone who is a underachiever, or just a jerk of a person. Some of us view a loser as a person who is self absorbed, vain, and only cares for him or herself and no one else, no matter how much money they have.
    Sometimes it's not a money thing, but It seems like most people look at the homeless as losers.


    I have friends that stay home, don't work, and play a lot of video games, they get called loser often enough. It seems like the people who have to put others down are the ones just trying to feel better about themselves. It's a shame people can be so cruel, we judge others without knowing what put them into the dire circumstances that they wound up in.


    So I'm sure there are many definitions of loser, but sometimes its best to keep your opinion to yourself and give a person the benefit of the doubt. Mostly it's the combination of a persons situations and flaws that get them called names. It's just to bad people aren't a little nicer.

    bluedeath

    Touché! But if imagining hurting the others the same as actually doing it? For example, a professional boxer imagines punching and taking out his opponent, so does that make him a loser or a winner if he defeats his opponent?

    daren1

    to some "happiness is contiplating the misary of others"

    Someone who's 40+ and still lives home with their parents

    TSC

    I'm referring to MEN who have MOMMY take care of them LONG into adult life while the wait for the "right woman" to come along.

    TSC

    Sorry if I offended anyone over 40 that's still living with their parents. I couldn't WAIT to get out of the house so at 18 I joined the Navy and have not lived at home with my parents since.

    bluedeath

    So all the people who's parents live with them also fall into this category? That would make most of the Asian and Eskimo world losers. Hmm. Somehow I do not think that is the right answer.

    daren1

    I DIDN,MOVE OUT TIL I WAS THIRTY, MY MOM NEEDED MY AS MUCH AS I NEED HER

    doublehelix

    that's absurd TSC, i can understand what you mean, but some people live with their parents so as to not make them feel lonely, or take care of them. or they can't still afford to live on their own, theres a reason for everything :)

    doublehelix

    and you feel good about it? parents are the most important people in your life, your meant to cherish them
    i'd never want to leave my parents, after graduation i'm getting married and move out on my own but i will always go to them and call daily , i hope your doing those things too, they are dear folks who will soon reach the age where they most want you to be with them before they leave this world

    TSC

    My two older sisters AND myself could NOT WAIT to get out of the house. Long story.

    theres no such a thing as a loser, everyone was born on in this world to contribute to something, wether little or much , every creature has it's purpose, every creature was born with a certain skill, may be visible , may be not, you are nobody to judge anybody, god didn't create a human being to make him feel like a loser, god created him to contribute to something,


    nobody should judge anybody, because in the end , no matter how much you achieve in this life, your a weak human being who will always go to sleep at night , a human being who will always be weak no matter what, so leave the judgment of losers and winners to god and god only.

    doublehelix

    um, so your telling me i'm a hypocrite?? :(

    doublehelix

    ahh, sorry , :)

    leeroy

    @dh I like your thought when it comes to no one being a loser, you have a nice view on the subject! It's sad to say that most people don't have your great attitude. So getting back to the question, which is the point of discussion, have your ever called someone a loser and what made your think that?


    On the judgmental quote it comes from a bible verse that says,"Judge not, lest you be judged. For by what measure you judge others, you will be judged also.Meaning if you smoke, don't go around telling others how bad it is for them and that they should quit. So don't be a hypocrite is the meaning.

    leeroy

    No! That's the meaning of the verse re-read it.

    leeroy

    No problem!

    Someone with no respect for themselves or others.

    Coach

    Absolutely. Also, with their attitude, they'll "lose" out on many of the great things life has to offer.

    bluedeath

    I like that answer. So by being apathetic to everyone, including themselves, they have no drive and no initiative to win. Is that what you are saying?

    leeroy

    Yes, gave you a T.U. coach great answer!

    Some one who doesn't try.

    Someone who refuses to believe and accept Jesus as their savior is the loser.

    Gordon Brown

    Some one who does not win.

    bluedeath

    Simplistic, but partially correct. What about someone who wins, but by cheating or hurting others in the process? Poor sportsmanship might apply to someone who wins consistently, but who does not honor the game or the sport by being a gracious winner. Does that make him a winner, or a loser?

    The dumbasses that voted for obama. They cant help it though, they were born this way.

    TSC

    You just earned a TU Zorro!

    bluedeath

    You must be brilliant, since you were in the minority of people who voted...or did you vote? My description of a loser would have to include those who have no civic pride, no citizenship, and no voting card, even when they are eligible to vote. Or have a card and do not vote. Of course, that would be just one small segment of a description of a loser, not the definition itself. In other words, an example of someone, possibly like zorro, who does not vote and then complains because others voted for or against something or someone the anti-voter did not like. Apathy only goes so far.

    PEOPLE WHO LEASE A JAP CAR BECAUSE THEY CANT AFFORD TO BUY IT FROM MUSLIM WHO HATES THEM, AND BLAME THE GOVERNMENT WHEN THEY LOOSE THERE JOB.WAKE UP AMERICA

    LOOK AT A PICTURE OF GUY WHO SPENT TWO WEEKS PAY FOR AN ENDZONE SEAT AT THE IRON BOWL,JUST TO SEE HIS 4 MILLION A YEAR COACH CHOKE LIKE A DRUNKEND ROCK STAR.

    loser |?lo?z?r|
    noun
    a person or thing that loses or has lost something, esp. a game or contest.
    • a person who accepts defeat with good or bad grace, as specified : we won fair and square—they should concede that and be good losers.
    • a person or thing that is put at a disadvantage by a particular situation or course of action : children are the losers when politicians keep fiddling around with education.
    • informal a person who fails frequently or is generally unsuccessful in life : a ragtag community of rejects and losers.
    • Bridge a card that is expected to be part of a losing trick.

    Jenn

    Funny!......

    Does Loser mean lost? I have never known a Loser. Only people who were lost by society and became invisible.
    People devoid of character with a rotting soul. Wealth is irrelevant.

    LOSER = Lost On Same Everyday Reason

    someone who can't spell definition......sorry, just kidding...couldn't resist!

    daren1

    t guess i deserved that!!

    People who cheat in relationships

    Ms sinclair



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