too get personal here. if u were to have been sexually disrespected many times by a family member and ur married and ur husband is aware of it, and he doesnt defend u, nor takes care of this situation in any manner what would you feel and what should i think. .. should you stay with someone that doesnt back his wife up...???? also within 3-4 years in to the relationship and husbands family spread rumors or creates problem and drama... such as saying that the child ur wife is carrying is not his? or say that ur girl before marriage has been cheating.. n knw that she hasnt been cheating, but yet doesnt say nothin to the family member to fix the misunderstanding or maybe curse her out, or something. but never stands up for his girl/wife.. would u stay with that person??