You cannot . You will lose your Wife!
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You always get caught in the end, if you need to sleep with another besides your wife, there's a problem that needs to be addressed in your relationship.
If you go out and cheat, on some level you are going to have guilt, and your wife will notice. There is no way it won't effect your relationship in one form or another. She will pick up on the signs, whether it's body language or a change in your behavior.
Eventually you will get caught, it's just a matter of statistics. Best thing to do is fix your broken relationship or get out of it. Hope this helps...
If you go out and cheat, on some level you are going to have guilt, and your wife will notice. There is no way it won't effect your relationship in one form or another. She will pick up on the signs, whether it's body language or a change in your behavior.
Eventually you will get caught, it's just a matter of statistics. Best thing to do is fix your broken relationship or get out of it. Hope this helps...
13 years ago. Rating: 7 | |
Not to get flamed but sometimes it depends on the situation, I had an affair that lasted over 3 years, my ex wife was lets say demanding, sometimes hostile and not what she was when we were dating, she switched channels on me, she did not want to go out, meet with our friends, she was a marital drop out. I found a woman that would spend time with me, talk to me, she was an angel in comparison.. Eventually the guilt got to me and i told my ex.. She went bezerk, then she tried to change her ways but by that time i had fallen in love all over again, we divorced and i went on with my new g/f and eventually we married. that was 26 years ago, we are still together today.. and I love her dearly! As you can see, wrong is not always wrong if its right. I do not condone infidelity I just lucked out.. Your mileage may vary..
Colleen
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13 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
What I don't understand is why, when your miserable in a marriage, do you stay married? You ended up divorcing anyway so divorce is not against your views or beliefs. Just wondering because I myself could never remain in a dead relationship. I'd end it first then connect with another person.
Colleen, Getting into views and beliefs is a can of worms, of course I don't believe in divorce but in my case, I could not go through life being miserable. When we dated, she was a different person, when we married she changed. I tried and tried to make things right, eventually I met someone and she filled the void, can't have it all.. I have no excuse for what i did, I can only say that I have no remorse for what I did. Today I am comfortable with a woman that did not 'fool me into marriage'. 26 years of being faithful to her I was young then, I made a mistake I picked a weed that if I stayed with my beliefs I would have not had the wonderful 26 years I have had. What is right?? get a divorce first? What comes first? the chicken or the egg.. if I divorced i may have never met the woman of my dreams. As I said, I do not condone what I did but then I feel no guild either because due to my affair, it opened up a whole new and beautiful life for me -- My ex?? She is miserable, married to a drunk and can't keep a job, I feel sorry for her but she made her own life..
Thanks Dollybird- i think luck has been with me for the last 26 years. And as I said, i don't condone what i did but in my case i don't feel guilty either as i raised my son to be a great guy and I have a wonderful wife, when we are young, we sometimes make mistakes, we made immature mistakes and living a life of sadness and badness because when you were young you made a wrong choice, as we age, we get smarter and realize these mistakes. 'Wrong is not always wrong if its right"
Sexual satisfaction is no longer a right, but a blessing, a gift of the relationship to its partner. The health of the relationship is infinitely more important than one owns desires and that ones own desires is an undeserved bounty within that relationship-not only closes the door to adulteries, but abolishes the door and the thought altogether. He who worships anything of himself is a canditate for extra marital sex. His desires have become his privileges. So long as he is his own god, hefeels himself free to obey nothing and no one but himself.
13 years ago. Rating: 1 | |
all I have to say is let her go if you feel the need to sleep with someone else. Why would you not want to loose her, obviously you don't want her or respect her or you would not want to sleep with someone else. Just what if you did sleep with this other women and she gave you an std or something worse that you take home to your wife, is that fair??? Just remember when you sleep with someone you are sleeping with everyone they have been with and anyone willing to sleep with a married man believe it or not, you are not you are not the only one she has slept with. Seems to me you are quite a bite selfish. Have enough respect for your wife to leave her first, she does not deserve to be humiliated and hurt by your immature and selfish actions. If you love your wife and don't want to lose her "DON'T DO IT". Once you go over that __________line, you can't get back. She "WILL" find out, WHEN THE TRUST IS GONE, IT'S OVER...........Ask yourself is this other woman worth losing it all for?????
13 years ago. Rating: 1 | |
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