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    How do I(35) know I'm inlove & how do I know he(47) is inlove with me?

    We are friends, he's childless & single.I feel differently about him lately, can't quite explain it & don't know if it's just normal affection or something more. If it is something more how do you move from friends to something else.

    0  Views: 337 Answers: 5 Posted: 13 years ago

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    Thanks for replying
    Black3

    It difficult to give advice to someone when you don't have all the facts. However if he wrote to you and said things like that perhaps he's trying to feel you out to see if your interest. Maybe you should talk to him and let him know your receptive to more that just a friendship and see what happens.
    Best to back off until he is single.Tell him your interested but... No matter how strong your feelings are, he is in a relationship. Basically if he cheats on her with you then he will most likely cheat on you as well. If he really likes you and is truly unhappy, he will leave her.I believe if it is meant to be that you two are together, it will work out that way. Just don't start a beautiful thing with dishonesty and deceit.I would also think that if you did start by him cheating it will set of a slight mistrust in him when you are in relationship, nobody needs to start that way..
    You need to talk to him more about that and then wait and see if she leaves or he leaves her.

    Then, and I mean this seriously - only time will tell. If given enough time things may develope into a relationship other than a friendship - or - it won't.

    You will need to accept whatever happens.
    If he is living with his girlfriend of 5 years, you should back off until she is out of the picture. How do you know he is not serious about her? If you don't care about breaking them up then go talk to him. See how he feels. Personally I could not get between two people unless I was sure they had nothing between them.
    Why?

    I like your last answer. It sounds like he's in the relationship but he's heart's not in it.
    Black3

    It sounds like maybe he is getting ready to end things, but after 5 years that can be quite difficult. I agree with everything what 6dogs4us said, Time will tell, be patient.
    IluvJesus

    I agree,I dated someone several years ago before I remarried,he was breaking things off with the mother of his child,they did not live together at first,but I got word she moved in with him and I quickly broke things off,months later he was knocking at my door,but I had moved on and my husband (who was my boyfriend at the time) answered the door, I over heard him telling him to move along and never look back in my direction again,so if he wants you he needs to make a decision before it's to late,don't wait on him.Be patient,but not to patient.
    Thank you all. I'll be patient & remain quiet and I will tell you the outcome.


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