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    My son who has aspergers got married to a filipono (cant spell it)he got married there .He met her 3weeks then asked her to marry him.He is Irish .They have no where to live here.He has a room but the house is crowded so they cant live here.She is waiting for Irish emmbasy to get in touch .I dont know if she is waiting for a visa.Has anyone done it ?Dont know what to expect

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      sounds like there in a very tough situation.they obviously need a place to live.. i would exactly hold my breath waiting for the embassys help.. does she have any family or friends to fall back on to help out.. i think his best bet is to stay in the overcrowded house no matter its still better than on the streets.. sorry i wish i could be of more help...
      12 years ago. Rating: 1
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        cami

        I cant.I have another son with aspergers & he is not good with strangers.He needs his space.I think she cant come if the embassy dosnt give her a visa.We know nothing about her only what son told us & he has told me lies already.She could be ok but we dont know.I have to think of the rest of the family .There is 3 adult children who also live here.
        commented 12 years ago
        I see so many red flags in your statements I'm not sure how to answer. Does your son have a job and could he afford an apartment of their own? The fact he has lied about the situation also sends a red flag.
        How did he meet her? A future in the Philippines is so poor that very many people there will do most anything if given the opportunity to leave. I know many Filipinos and usually find them a very hard working people, but much of their income is sent home to help their families (it is their culture).
        I am from the USA but assume the immigration to Ireland is not much different. There is a process they must go through for her to get a visa, and it will probably take months. The embassy will not contact them, they have to do the paperwork. Best of luck to you as well as them.
        12 years ago. Rating: 1
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