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Until you find a way of taking care of your issue, then it would be unfair of you to being someone into your life knowing you're not going to trust them from the get go. Your baggage shouldn't be their burden unless they wont it. Be honest with them and tell them you won't trust them. In saying that, they shouldn't have to go out of their way to prove anything to you.

12 years ago. Rating: 1
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i have the same thing my ex gf broke up with me and ends up she was talking one of my friends while we were dating but now i have a new gf and i started stressing because i was scared she was going to do the same but you really just got to try and trust them if they truly like you then they will understand and all you got to do is just not care if it happens it happens you just move on and

12 years ago. Rating: 0
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Why are you even thinking of bringing someone into your life if you don't trust them? you would have to be crazy

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well you have evolved:
TRUST IS EARNED, NOT GRANTED.
Until trust is re earned+++Here is what you do. That is assumes the person adds value to your life.People do not take money from banks
because they will do hard time in Federal Prison, when caught.There
fore they{ if a thief will choose a form of crime with more livable
consequences>>>>>>>THAT IS YOUR KEY:
1} TRUST A LITTLE BIT>>BUT TELL THE PERSON WHAT THE CONSEQUENCES THEY WILL, FACE , >>>IF THEY LOSE YOUR TRUST.

2} CONSEQUENCES ARE SWIFT, NO NEGOTIONIONS>>>>ABSOLUTE.

3] IF THE PERSON , HAS CHANGED{ NOT LIKELY} YOU WILL BE BETTER OFF
WITH ONE LAST TIME>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> REMEMBER CONSEQUENCES ARE
OFTEN IN WRITING, SIGHNED BY BOTH PARTIES. IE LOOSE MY TRUST,
YOU WILL BE INVISIBLE TO ME , FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!

4} DAUGHTER , IF YOU GET A DWI+++++YOU WILL TAKE A BUS
TO COLLEGE, AND EVERY WHERE ELSE AS LONG AS YOU LIVE AT HOME.
{ I had the last one sighned , notorized at bank, daughter and me
]thanks for putting up my spelling++++I do not type

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