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what do you do if yr partner has bn sleepin with a close family member an they wana secretly trying to destroy you my partners in prison this week for beating me up we have a daughter togetha and i have a boy he brought up as dad i try 2 stay away but he stil harassin me an the family an still secretly meetin but they wont just leave me an kids alone an be togetha they are getin off on it????

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mom

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Well the easy answer here is take the kids and move away, get a restraining and no contact order and just start fresh. I am sorry to hear your situation but sometimes leaving completely is all you have left. I would also get in contact with a women's shelter as they will help you get everything together and even help find a home and help keep him away. You also have to take a little responsibility and get things going with the protective orders and for God sake DONT ANSWER THE PHONE TO HIM. You have to let the codependency go, if thats an issue. Only you can change this situation...there is always a light at the end of the tunnel even if you can't see it.

13 years ago. Rating: 2
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Vinny

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Restraining order..

13 years ago. Rating: 1
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FreedomFighter

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Go to a shelter, they will be able to advise you.

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visionbabe

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you got to be strong for your sake and your boys sake, at the end of the day, we only get bullied if we let people do it to us, you say he beat you up, is that what you want for your self,?? or for your child to see, i would say goodbye to him, and move on, your only have one life and no one should make you feel that crappy, or unhappy, hope this helps, and yeah they sound like they are getting off on it, dont let them is my answer,

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Peaches

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So the guy who beat you up and fathered your baby is messing around with a family member? If I have this right, my only advice is get away fast. Get a restraining order, move if you can, go to a shelter, do anything to get away and stay away from him. It will not get better and, if he hasn't already, he will eventually hurt your children.