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    Have you ever seen death?

    I've been to funerals with open casket or viewings I should say and in nursing school we were made to go look at some poor guy who didn't go out easy. That's it, no war or accidents, gun shot or suicide. I think I'm rare at 57, what about you?

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    Last breath of father in law in hospice, dead person in prison after a riot,


     

    jhharlan

    Whoa! Great and wicked......

    Yes.1st of July this year I sat with a dying friend and his family at the hospital until he took his last breath.Diagnosed with lung cancer only 6 weeks before he died.The cancer ravaged his body in such a short time.One of the tumors was the size of a tennis ball protruding from his chest. Something I would not like to witness ever again.


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    jhharlan

    Ouch. But special in that you were there to say goodbye......

    Yes. Too many times.But at least I'm still sane.(I think :) ) It no longer shocks me.

    jhharlan

    Oh. Is this sad or what? Bless YOU Tommy....

    Yep..nuff said..>>>>>>>><<<<<<..

    Yes I sat with my mother when she died, and also with my Father-in law. On both of those occasions it was very peaceful at the end , and I was able to see that they both had something relieving and peaceful happen to them at the end. I also came across a motor cyclist who had gone into the back of a stationary lorry about 15 years ago, that played on my mind for a long time, I could see his face every time I closed my eyes, he was a young man with a wife and family, it made me feel very sad for a long time.

    jhharlan

    Nightmare fodder.....

    Both my Mother and Father, i had to I.D. my father at the coroner's office because he died at his home, and my mother at the Funeral Directors, she made me promise for a number of years to prick her big toe to make sure she was dead, i contacted the undertaker, he told me not to worry as he has requests often similar to mine, so i honoured my Mothers Wishes.

    jhharlan

    I've wanted to be cremated for the longest time but your mother and I have the same fear. Please, whoever, make sure I'm dead......

    i've seen before death arrived. the night my dad died at kaiser hospital. we 3 kids and mom were up to visit. went back by myself an hour later to talk to dad about being resuscitated if he had a heart attack.  he said they resuscitate everybody. he was a funny man like archie bunker from the tv show.  well the main point is he told me to get him a pillow for under his head, and he told me he was so tired. "i'm so tired." i told him he could get some rest because everybody's gone and i'm getting ready to leave.  he had not touched his dinner. i asked him did he want it, if not i'll take it home and eat later. he said take the soup and everything. he wasn't eating anything. the next morning he was dead.  he actually died from a blood clot in right leg and kaiser amputated that leg. a week later he asked my mother why they cut off his leg. my mom told him and he said, "well they took off the wrong leg." i told you he was funny. but he was serious. and to top it off he developed a clot in the left leg and they were trying to figure out what to do, they, the kaiser doctor's cause they did not know if at 87 he could take another amputation. i think my dad gave up and decided to leave the planet. he was a wonderful, beautiful, gifted, intelligent, funny, dedicated and strong man. the greatest man i have seen on or off tv.

    jhharlan

    When my mom passed, my sister sent me an article about why the individual will choose to die when alone. I could find it but it's years old. Just know it was his choice.......

    Yes, a bad few times unfortunately.

    jhharlan

    In the service, accidents, embalmed?
    ROMOS

    Yes!

    Yes, I was present when each of my parents passed. There is a certain "atmosphere" which is unique to that situation.

    Yes I have been at the end.  I am still afraid of my death, I do not know if I want my family there to see "The End"  I want them to feel peace at my end but I fear they will be VERY upset!

    jhharlan

    Been at the end? I can understand the fear. I don't think about it.....
    tabber

    clu try not to worry to much. if death happened to so man people, it can't be that bad. we all gotta do it. i've told my family if i die before them don't be sad too long. maybe a day or an hour. life is for the living and the living should not worry and be happy, til their time comes. nice to hear your views on this topic. clu take good care of yourself! and maybe it won't come too quick.

    I was with my mom, holding her hand, when she died, so peacefully, I barely noticed her breathing had stopped.  I have, of course, been to several funerals, and had to take some much loved pets to be euthanized.  I literally sobbed on those occasions.  :( 

    jhharlan

    I envy you being with your mom. I was miles away when my mom passed and didn’t even get to go to her memorial……...
    Bob/PKB

    My sons had just stepped out of the room after spending an hour talking and laughing "with" her over stories of her abetting their various antics. They knew she was dying, but made that last hour like no other. As ill as she was, and unable to participate, she did shrug her shoulders at one story, like "What else could I do!" That was about the time she hid one in a closet, then invited the sheriff deputy looking for him to have breakfast. My kids did their best in a very hard time for them.

    When I was a student we had to dissect a human body. I can still remember the smell of formalin. I believe that today students do not dissect bodies but learn anatomy from 'virtual reality'.


    Also saw my mother at the undertakers.



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