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NO! Having a baby is not 'romantic' in any way whatsoever....it's alot of crappy diapers which are not romantic by any means...and at this point it sounds like you would end up as another statistic....single mommy....babies are not pawns to be used in a game to get some guy's attention.

You can give your baby life, the most important thing anyone can have. But if you have no material assets like a home, enough money, a supportive partner then you should seriously consider whether to bring a new human being into the world. Today you have the choice which was not available to your ancestors.

of course not !  You should NOT have a baby untill you are married and have some means of supporting the baby and giving him the stimulating toys and activities and side trips that he needs for his developement. Every child does best with both a mother and a father in the home.