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    i've a problem with my girlfriend she don't listning to me......what should i do??

    0  Views: 643 Answers: 10 Posted: 7 years ago
    clidoca1

    FIND ANOTHER GIRL. THIS ONE IS TOO SELFISH.

    10 Answers

    It's a conscious choice. If she doesn't like what she hears, it becomes "blah blah blah". That happens when you are critical,  condescending,  derisive,  dictatorial,  crude, or abusive.


    To prevent this, you must be complimentary, acquiescent, humble. If that doesn't help, you might just cut her loose.  Or just say nothing and nod whenever she speaks. 

    How about YOU listen to HER instead. I think that will work better.

    Vinny

    Now there's a typical woman's answer to the situation.. Gotta be the guy's fault!! LOL!!
    Ducky

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    BEST COMMENT!!!!
    digger

    You're right. Men are much better listeners.
    Ducky

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    Only when it comes to listening to sports analysts!

    I have a wife been married to for almost 30 years.. same problem, there's no cure for that, it's in the Woman's DNA. Get used to it.

    Ducky

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    BEST ANSWER!!!!
    Vinny

    And what's worse is that they know it!!!! LOL!!
    Ducky

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    And even worse than that...we're proud of it! LOL!!
    mycatsmom

    I thought it was men that had selective listening .

    I have a similar problem , my wife says I don't pay any attention to her or something like that i wasn't really even listening !!

    adel.belloul.1

    ok just give her more attention

    Consider it a dress rehearsal for marriage.


    Run, Forrest. RUN !

    Ducky

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    NOT best answer!
    mycatsmom

    hahahah
    digger

    Are you laughing at or with me?

    Try speaking proper English to her..........

    adel.belloul.1

    but she don't speaking english ...

    Maybe she's reached the expiration date with the relationship. Move on.

    Maybe she doesn't want to be told what, when and how to live her life.

    Go Fishing, or to a football match, or whatever else you like doing. Get yourself a dog, it will listen to you, and won't answer back.

    These aren't my words :33



    1) She has given or is giving you a reason to believe she would cheat on you


    2) You are for whatever reason, insecure with your relationship as it stands.


    I would figure out which reason best fits. If it is because you don't trust her, talk to her honestly about it, find out if the relationship is really worth it.


    If you don't really have a valid reason for wanting her to break the friendship it is probably because you're insecure--sorry. Just breathe and be rational, maybe ask to meet this guy. Ease some of your fears. I know if I had a boyfriend that wanted me to stop talking to a friend, I'd be upset. Give her a chance to show you that they really are nothing more than friends.


    If she absolutely refuses to work with you at all on this then you know that there probably *is* a reason to be worried.



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