adel.belloul.1
10 Answers
Bob/PKB
Best answer!
It's a conscious choice. If she doesn't like what she hears, it becomes "blah blah blah". That happens when you are critical, condescending, derisive, dictatorial, crude, or abusive.
To prevent this, you must be complimentary, acquiescent, humble. If that doesn't help, you might just cut her loose. Or just say nothing and nod whenever she speaks.
| 10 years ago. Rating: 7 | |
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AldeWicht
These aren't my words :33
1) She has given or is giving you a reason to believe she would cheat on you
2) You are for whatever reason, insecure with your relationship as it stands.
I would figure out which reason best fits. If it is because you don't trust her, talk to her honestly about it, find out if the relationship is really worth it.
If you don't really have a valid reason for wanting her to break the friendship it is probably because you're insecure--sorry. Just breathe and be rational, maybe ask to meet this guy. Ease some of your fears. I know if I had a boyfriend that wanted me to stop talking to a friend, I'd be upset. Give her a chance to show you that they really are nothing more than friends.
If she absolutely refuses to work with you at all on this then you know that there probably *is* a reason to be worried.
| 10 years ago. Rating: 2 | |
