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    WHY DO MEN CHEAT ON THEIR WIFE WHEN SHE IS DROP DEAD PRETTY?

    WHY DO MEN CHEAT ON THE WIFE WHEN SHE IS A KNOCK OUT , VERY PRETTY, NICE THE WHOLE 10 YARDS?

    +1  Views: 1357 Answers: 14 Posted: 11 years ago

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    It takes two to make and break a marriage and you really don't know what goes on behind closed doors.


    Everyone asked me why on earth I would leave my first husband because he was such a great guy.  The truth is he was one person in the house and an entirely different person outside of the house.  I couldn't make it work, so I left.


    There are people on this planet that need someone to fill in the space before they leave a relationship.  My best friend was very much like this when she was alive.  She had many relationships and she always, without fail, had a man lined up before she left someone. 


    There you go... a small slice of life.

    millie111

    Oh Fishie..The old charmer trick...I fell for that one too!..Ex-husband made absolutely no effort to be charming to anyone!..Ex..charms everyone outside the house,smart,suave..the true Gentleman..no one can believe that it was a different story behind closed doors!:-¬..(On the plus side of it..at least the husband was consistent)!;-)lol!
    FISH-O

    Seeing themselves through the reaction of others... their persona takes a break once the door closes. Yep. Consistent.
    millie111

    What to say fishie?..what to say:-Z..in the words of ?ROMOS..I believe..."Don`t get me started"!;-)...(Forgive me ROMOS if that was a misquote)!:-0
    Ducky

    Moderator
    "Don't start me"?

    I have never been able to figure that one out.


    I have an aquaintace that calls in on me once in a while & regales me with tall tales & true of his extra-marital sexual exploits.(He thinks I'm interested,but I'm not).


    His wife is a 6ft.blonde lady of German extraction who is not only very attractive but a really nice person to boot.


    It's as tho they have something to prove by nailing every woman that will give them the time of day.I don't understand the behaviour at all.

    Some men are like cattle,' the grass seems greener on the other side of the fence.'

    Some people are addicted to sex! I think more men than women! They feel they have to prove to themselves how SEXY they are!  It is hell in a relationship to have one person feel this way! The culprit will try to hide his or her addiction! Sadly the addicts attract the NON addicts!

    Jack Large

    I'm not so sure about that. If you ask men to be truthfully about the answer to the question; "In you first sexual encounter, who was the instigator, you or the female and who was older." Eight our of ten will answer, the female and that she was OLDER." ;-)

    clu

    Ah Jack So once is enough? Maybe a restaurant is where you need to be.

    Maybe she`s pretty but brainless/boring!..Maybe he only married her for her looks alone!...or perhaps they are not as compatable as they once thought!..or maybe he`s just a bastard!:-z...sorry but you did ask!:-(

    The grass is always greener, perhaps it boosts his ego, who knows why anyone cheats, I wonder why some people get married

    mycatsmom

    it's a wonder anybody ever stays married.

    Men sometimes cheat on their beautiful wives...women sometimes cheat on their handsome husbands. Why? Because a long lasting relationship has absolutely nothing to do with looks. It has to do with commitment, loyalty, honesty, moral standards and common interests. What a person looks like, is only the initial attraction and never lasts.

    hector5559

    Well said Duky,
    Ducky

    Moderator
    Thank you.

    And some couples become just bored and may fall out of love with each other.   How did the song go, "make an ugly woman my wife, going to be happy for the rest of my life".  Some of these "trophy wives" are not very nice, and are very high maintenance. 

    millie111

    :-)..Funny!..but probably true!..Trophy wives rarely last and must be a very insecure existence!;-Z
    bustieone

    I never thought of it from that prospective! Interesting, thanks Millie...
    mycatsmom

    bust , I like that song. It's fun to sing it.Reminds me of my Jr. High days.
    mycatsmom

    bust , I like that song. It's fun to sing it.Reminds me of my Jr. High days.
    bustieone

    Millie, don't get me wrong, I like my steak at home, and there is no hamburger that can compete. When you have a good spouse, why loose that over a fling? Not me...
    millie111

    bustieone..No No not me either!...Just something someone said recently which made me laugh!;-0
    bustieone

    I apologize if I insinuated anything like that Millie...
    millie111

    No apology needed bustieone...Wasn`t/am not offended:-)...Just felt the need to say.."No..No..Not me"!..That`s all I meant:-)!Xx

    A wife could look like Miss World, but as saying goes,, Never judge a book by its cover.!

    Married men do not go to a restaurant if the wife is a great cook  ;-)


    When a marriage goes on the rocks, the rocks are generally in their bed, WBMG


     


     

    clu

    I've heard this for years! I think it STINKS! If you want to cheat you will! Being a person who listens to men and women, This old saying just SUCKS! SORRY!
    bustieone

    Jack, many guys do love their "take-out meals", even their wives are the best cooks!
    millie111

    I thought money was usually the biggest contention...anyone can cheat..they`re usually only sorry for getting caught out imho!:-0
    millie111

    Yeah..I`m with Bustie...who was it who said recently that after 20 years of eating the finest steak...sometimes a hamburger becomes like a very appealing change!:-¬:-(
    Ducky

    Moderator
    Married men do not "go to a restaurant" if they have morals. They also don't blame their wives if they lack morals. Married couples are adults and adults are responsible for their own behavior, no matter how much they would like to cry "poor little me".

    How does it go? No matter how attractive a woman is, there is some man who has to put up with her sh**.........

    hector5559

    Im,agarst,at the words put up with,
    millie111

    And vice verse Jules!(Men can be the same)!;-z

    maybe she is nagging him to death, or maybe she only wants to have sex with him the night before she goes to her hairdressers, and that' s only once a year. Or maybe since they had kids, she sees him as a neccessary evil to her life.......just a paycheck.

    Only a shallow man would cheat on an ugly woman. It requires profound character to overlook her physical attributes.

    Ducky

    Moderator
    You're sick!
    digger

    "...she said, affectionately." LOL
    Ducky

    Moderator
    "...she said, as she packed his suitcase."
    doolittle

    so Digger are you shallow or one with profound character???
    digger

    Do you mean "in general" or with respect to being loyal ?
    doolittle

    @ digger- caught you in your own trap! Re-read your answer. You just told us your wife (in nicer terms) isn't beautiful- shame on you! LOL
    digger

    Absolutely not. I was NOT describing myself in this scenario. Shame on you for assuming that I was.
    doolittle

    I thought you were more than just a shallow dude! Good on You as our Aussie mates would say!

    Some men can't get past their own ego and must have it boosted constantly. How do I know this, I was married to someone exactly like this myself.



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