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You are on a journey. There's a lot that you are here for. Many things you need to learn, to accomplish and to settle within yourself. Once you achieve a good spot in life where you are happy and secure, then will you be ready to bring someone else and all their baggage into your life. Until then, continue to work on yourself, learn to love yourself and learn how to be happy just being you and being alone. Then you will be ready to share yourself with another. Your journey in life is all about you first and another second. You were put here to learn. Keep learning and all that you need will come when you are ready for it. 

I found the one who spent in my life...my wife! She cleaned me out. Just be careful!  

you're probably still young. Give it time.