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    how do u get over a break up?

    i broke up with my boyfriend. and after that and some things he has done me (after the break up) i still like him. any way to help get over him would help

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    +1  Views: 564 Answers: 6 Posted: 11 years ago
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      This is a tough one because you still like him...any chance of a friendship??  (Could you be friends with him if he was dating someone else- and respect her too?).  While you are dating there will be times that a guy leaves you, You leave a guy, or you both decide to move on.  


      Perhaps thinking about why you decided to break up with him will help.  Sometimes hanging with friends, doing school or outside work, helping a living being (person or animal), and realizing that You deserve a great guy will help!  (and yes you still like him- but you broke up with him for a reason. So, maybe he wasn't all that great? Or just not for you? )

      11 years ago. Rating: 4
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        bay123

        well i didnt really want to break up its just that he hated me and i was done with him and he was telling everyone we were done but me. so it seemed like the right thing to do.
        but now he makes my life horrid. he made up things about me and sometimes threw things at me he and his friends would. so i think being friends wont work :(
        commented 11 years ago
        doolittle

        OK this guy is TROUBLE! STAY AWAY!!!
        commented 11 years ago

        Look inside yourself and follow your passions.  Keep yourself busy with the things you love doing.  Grow, be and live your life.  Life is a journey.  Move forward.  You dumped him for a reason... if the shoe does not fit don't buy it.

        11 years ago. Rating: 8
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          "Surviving the Loss of a Love"  by Bloomfield.  It's $8.  The best $8 you will ever spend. Trust me.  I've been moping for nearly a year....this book helped me over it in one day. ONE DAY. 
           

          11 years ago. Rating: 7
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            Personal Freedom....""

            11 years ago. Rating: 7
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              doolittle

              Amen!
              commented 11 years ago

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              just move on with your life and dont look back

              11 years ago. Rating: 6
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                hey! I KNOW i never believed thaat old cliche my parents went on about....TIME IS A GREAT HEALER!!!...but it so is!!...INDULGE YOURSELF!!..be extra kind to you!!...Catch up with friends who you may


                have seen less of!!.....LOOK FORWARD NOT BACK!!!...iT OB WASNT MEANT TO BE...HARSH AS THAT SOUNDS!!....give yourself time and that right one will show up wheb yer least expecting it!!!...LOVE N ALL TH BEST MILLIE XXX(take it from someone who`s def had their heart broken badly more than once!!!! XXXX

                11 years ago. Rating: 6
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