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    how to get a girl that i like and she likes me aswell to break up with her boyfriend

    me and her have been friends for a long time and she told me that she likes me alot and wishs she could be with me but says she cant because she loves her boyfriend to much and cant hurt him please help me i really like this girl and this may be my only chance

    +1  Views: 662 Answers: 7 Posted: 12 years ago

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    There's nothing you can do. This is all on her. Personally I think she has commitment issues and in time would do the same to you that she is doing to her boyfriend now. Walk away. She does not know how to love. She is a taker, not a giver.  I feel sorry for her boyfriend if he doesn't recognize this in her.  

    The dumbest thing you can do is to get in between this girl and her boy friend.  She could be using you to shield her from him.  You could end up getting hurt, physically.  Let her mop up her own mess and if opportunity permits, you could get together with her months from now. 

    It's been said before and I'll say it again....Friends you keep, lovers you lose. 
    She sounds like a "grass is greener over someone else's septic tank" type of person.  She loves her BF too much to hurt him, which tells me you would be an affair. 
    Like you've been told, keep away.  I'd watch the friendship, too.  Experience tells me people like you have described are not to be trusted with one's heart.  
    P.S.  This is not the only chance.  Trust me on this.   

    QUESTION Would  you like that done to you.? I bet not .So why do you want to do the same to this "Guy" She likes playing with "Hearts " Stay well clear she is a "Trouble maker breaker .look  seek you will find someone who cares only for you . If you meet her with your new girlfriend .Just smile .You will notice she is all "Alone."Goodbye Trash.

    I think you're gonna have to wait this one out. Because to badmouth him to her or spread rumors about him would be wrong. Just keep being her freind, and being nice to her you'll be in the back ground for when she breaks up with him. I know a lady who got married that way . She said she married the guy who was always in the background waiting for her.

    mycatsmom

    actually, I think you should start dating other girls, b/c she might just be stringing you along for in case she ever needs you. Yes,she might be a user .And give yourself a more flattering screen name

    you can`t...she`s in the driving seat!....She sounds selfish...what would her b,friend feel like if he knew she even thinking this way???....Not only would she very likely do the same to you at some point...but you`d lose a friend...if that`s what she`s really worth having as a friend!!...Get out there and find someone more deserving of you!


    good luck!

    Put that one back in her lap!  If she really likes you and loves him and she can't figure it out for herself...well...is she good enough for a guy like you?  I wonder....



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