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It's a red flag if a man is a control freak. Some women are too. Those kinds of men can become abusive. It sounds like he doesn't like  your son, so don't live with him , or he may be mean to your son.

It's time to walk away and start a new life. You CAN make it on your own and your son needs stability.  If there is one, call your local women's shelter....they can help.

It can be hard to leave...but if you have to move in with your sis and he doesn't want too then God is giving you a way out!  Trying to control someone else is sick- this guy is not well.  Leave!!!

No one has the right to control anyone else, that is unless they are in some way incapable or developmentally delayed,of which you seem neither, take control of your life and that of your son's

It is up to you to start taking control,do what is best for your young son, he should come first and be your top priority.

I do'nt think that this man is good for you or your son. Tell him see ya!!!

I never understood the need or desire to control my wife. It's her whole persona that attracted me to her in the first place. I have on several occasions made a decision that she didn't agree with, but there are times decisions have to be made, now. No time for bulls***. She is a bit bossy at times. I have to remind her that I'm not the "Help", I'm the guy that pays the help.

It sounds as though you need to get away from this guy, as he sounds like he has some major issues to deal with. Have a talk with the local police regarding getting your stuff, and see what they would be willing to do.

a breakup followed by a restraining order could be a good option.... a person who attempts to control another is a person not fit for a meaningful relationship, there are a lot of nice guys out there go find one of them

Why would anyone want to put up with a CONTROL FREAK??!..it maybe hard to distance yourself from this guy...but if you are looking for a happy life....YOU MUST!!...Help and support is available for you!(check out websites which specialize in helping women in abusive relationships)!...You`ll be so much happier when you are finally free of him and regain your freedom and self worth!!:-)..(Been there..done it)!!!;->

Good luck..just muster ALL your strength and GO FOR IT!!!!;-)

I divorced him..........

Weigh the pros and cons of staying in the relationship.  Remember to include your son's BEST interests.  
If I had to move tokeep MY son, that guy could be the man of my dreams and it wouldn't make a bit of difference.  Partners come and go (no offense to the soul mates out there), but your children.......nope, my child would take precedence over any man.   

Fire them. There was someone many years ago who thought they could be in charge of me. I haven’t seen them in all these years because I had the good sense to ignore their demands and leave. I never looked back and lived my adventure one day at a time. At first I would remember them demanding something that I would ignore, then, gradually, day by day the memory of their demands and insults lost it’s sting and I found it easier to enjoy my day. Now the terror I felt for them has long past and every day I know I was right to leave.

Call her Jacqueline

Call him uncle sam.  Really! Time to move on and find someone who really cares about u and your son. This is a wake up call!

Ready...Set...Go!!!

Take back control and never give it away again. Good Luck!