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    Have you ever experience your 'true love' and/or 'soul mate' in this life so far?

    +10  Views: 2885 Answers: 23 Posted: 12 years ago
    doolittle

    tabber- you on a roll with all of these good questions!
    FISH-O

    Every once in a while we get the Tabber Treat of Question-o-mania. It's fun to find them all and answer them.

    23 Answers

    I am with my soulmate.  It is magic.

    doolittle

    You are a perceptive one!!!! Of course I include my human niece in the mix. The joke has always been my sibling had "my" child-LOL.
    doolittle

    I do hope you like that aunt. We aunts can be a bit nutty at times-LOL
    doolittle

    Yea- We have a lot of fun together! She can talk to me about stuff that she feel uncomfortable talking to other adults. So, that is very cool.
    doolittle

    I am the one who is lucky and blessed. Having no children of my own I am so fortunate to have her!!!

    Yes.It is the greatest feeling.

    Yes, several times. My grandmother warned me...........

    jhharlan

    She said I will have so many "in loves" by the time I was 25, I'd lose count. She was right.....

    Yes, I married her.....

    Ducky

    Moderator
    <3 <3

    my story is quite similar to Randys  as well as Eds I met my wife/true love back in high school and it's been quite a journey since we dated for about ten years till we finally tied the noose or not rather and that was 21 years ago..


     

    Yes.

    I believe I met mine some time ago, sadly ended but I knew it had to, I now have someone I love dearly and treasure, but soul mates, maybe not

    ed shank

    If the one your with loves you, thank God. Many don't have someone who cares. Who amongst us has never said "What if'?
    lambshank

    ed, I am so fortunate to find someone that does love me, for who I am ,understands my past, and accepts me for who I am and what my passions in life are, I am truly happy and admire this man that accepted me, baggage and all the crap that was happening some time back

    Nope. 

    ed shank

    Nope, NOT YET anyway. "True love" doesn't bite you in the ass, it's something that happens over a period of time. When it does you want to believe/convince yourself that you have found your "soul mate". The longer your together only reinforces that thinking.
    FISH-O

    You need to make a mantra. Yep.... definitely.
    hector5559

    Hm,well we live so far apart,

    Romantically- No.  Otherwise:  Yes, I have several Soul Mates!  It Is wonderful to have that much love in your heart for another!

    FISH-O

    I have two dogs who were my soul mates as well. You know, those dogs who are your great dogs.
    I can't believe I have been so fortunate to have had two.
    Having that one dog is amazing.
    :)
    FISH-O

    My Aunt says the same thing about me. :)
    FISH-O

    I adore my Aunt... I bet your niece feels the same way about you.
    FISH-O

    She is one lucky girl. :)

    I'm 61. Started kindergarten with my wife. Knocked her up at 17. Married her at 18. Been loving her ever since.

    Bob/PKB

    :} Thanks, ed shank; I completely agree that love is a time-evolving emotion. You, daren1 and randy are good examples. At 60, it just doesn't seem like something that is going to find me, or vice versa. Perhaps there are too many pieces of my heart chipped away with poor choices to have much left to give anymore. He may be right under my big ol' Armenian nose and I don't even see him. I haven't given up the dream, but I'm not banking on it anymore.
    ed shank

    I've always believed that there is someone for everyone. Your physical age may be sixty but your attitude isn't. That special person will find you. After all, I am "Knower of all things in the Universe".
    bustieone

    Armenian, my wife is Armenian, 50 %, I am an "ordat" spelled? Inch-possess? also spelled incorrectly. But I did learn how to cook lamb shis-kabob from my father-in-law... And have made my own set of skewers!
    Bob/PKB

    Wow, that is cool to make your own skewers. I always wanted personalized license plates that read "HYE 5", but my odar x wasn't Armenian and would have none of it. My Armenian never got past "esh" and "vardigs". Maybe we are related!
    bustieone

    vardigs means underwear, right?
    Bob/PKB

    Yes, vardigs is underwear. There's another word I learned, derogatory racial slur, which I've forgotten. Thankfully.

    yes I keep it a secret to my self..

    yes  when i was 12 i had a love that made my heart stop . i dated him all through college, this love is a idolism.   which is a sin.    then i married  young thinking it was love. but i think it was a few things  i thought it was security and independence, we worked as a team we had kids, when he left i really felt nothing. so sure that was not my soul mate.  then i met my current husband. we  were ment to be together.i meet him in detroit in a bar, he was just 18 and i was 28 he has never had a drink. what are the odds, i went to movies and were just friends and i move out of state to texas,  he  came to visit one time over three yr period, and  we stayed friends while he was in school, he talked me into applying for a job in mich over the christmas holiday. if you know anything about   corp america no one hires then.  well i had three job offers for double my pay and a 3000 signing bonus. well it was ment to be. we dated more seriously at this time around. a yr later i was offered a job in fla for double  the doubed  moneyl with another singing bonus. i left with  knowing when he graduated he would  follow. well he ended up in calif.  and took a job there. well something went wrong with his job, he could not keep it as calf you had to be a citizen. he had an amazing law suite but never sued.  you would think this was his only option  he came to fla l he mopped and was miserable as well as il   but see his jmillionaire cousin lived there and offered to buy him a mcdonalds.   he turn away from that and we were married six months later.  as many moves that we made away from each other. god had a plan.   we were ment to be tog.at the time i was very successful and he was just starting his climb in  lifes world of success.   today  this man  that chased me around the world has seen me through cancer, taken care of a daughter who is bi polar like she were his own. and for many many yrs he has loved me even though i have gained  several hundred lbs being unable to work and barley walk being in three car accidents and a terrible fall.   he has the same smile for me when he was 18  and i have such a peace in my heart you can not imagine. we think the same thought although we are such oppsite people. we like the same things,  we  laugh at the same stuff and  cry at the same things,i am so proud of him  and everthing he stands for and is .we share the same faith  which we did not when we marriedl   sharing a faith with someone   brings you to a whole different level.  he is my hero and i am his lady.  i worry about  what will happen to him when i die. i  have even asked a girlfried to  marry him after i am gonel   a soulmate is loving  someone more than you love yourself. but not as much as you love god.

    eggplant

    Granny, you're over the top. He's most likely doing it to someone his own age. You're living in fairyland.
    grandma diane

    To the jerk who thinks he is cheating. Well its a shame you have never been faithful to a woman . I was with a husband that cheated the first time around and there are def signs of that for sure. I am in a fairytale and his is my prince charming. Ya know they say love is blind.
    but everywhere we go all I hear is your husband really loves you . I hear it from Doctors, Denstist, co workers of his, waitresses, people in our church group of 16 yrs.My daughters tell me to be nicer as he is so good to me and so in love with me. Neighbors are always commenting on this, The pharmesist and the pastors.He is sick to his stomach when we are apart,He takes me with him on all his business trips. He even has a bumper sticker that says I LOVE MY WIFE.I can only say its god. It did not hurt that we were best friends for along time. And maybe that he loved me first for a long time.He was the one who chased me.
    But so did my first husband and he left. I have always had an attitude don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out. My parents were married for 65 yrs and his parents are married for over 50. So I will give alot of credit to them as well for setting a great example. My husband feels that divorce is not an option. He knows plenty of beautiful women as well. His assistant looks like a barbi doll. I can never say never but I will tell you he is not now. He is appalled when he hears of men at work who cheat on their wives or vise versa,He has counseled many of them to go back to there husbands or wifes.When you get this age you know you do not know everything as you do. And I have known many people who cheated on their spouses.I know what a person does to hide it, what a person does with their money,and what a person does when they are not happy. I am more than blessed and I never take it for granted. I never let him feel that he is not all that and a loaf of bread. Men stay with women who make them feel good about themselves. And I will admit I did not do this in my first marriage. I belittled him, blamed him for his faliures, and guess I was just not that into himBut this one well my heart pounds when he walks in the door. I smile everytime he walks in the room. I look to see if things make him laugh and this gives me great joy. I do not cook, I do not clean, and I do not do windows. My brothes just can not quite figure out why he stays. I can not give you a good answer for that ... maybe he does not know any better. I even ask him why he stays. And he gets very angry with me when I say things like Bthat. I am just being honest with him. I by far got the better deal. But he does have all my love and respect and the rest of my life no matter what. By the way how long have you been cheating?
    lambshank

    you sound very judgmental, but even with all the detail I'm happy that you are happy,each to their own, and live and let live
    Bob/PKB

    This was a little too much information. Putting in all the financial stuff would lead many to believe you were a cash cow for him. You have made it clear that your relationship is real and true, and I couldn't be happier for you. Understand, though, there will always be skeptics. Several hundred pounds??? And you go on trips with him when you can barely walk??? I don't know....

    Soul its a metaphore. If your heart, mind, body and soul, and anything else your love and passions can construe up. Its soul mate top me.. I have had it for 22 years. Hes 62 now and Im 43. Total opposites. Hes a recluse and Im very outgoing But dispite the age and personality Didfference. We are perfect for each other, Did I mention we never fight!!

    Love the one your with... dont't be lookin' around, we are all soul mates 

    master blaster paint

    good answer caplin
    lambshank

    reminds me of a song that became a little controversial
    tabber

    Chaplin Don I really like your answer, because I believe we have more than one soulmate. But I love "don't be lookin around" theory. Then you mess up what you got.
    mycatsmom

    Don, I like that song.

    YES! :-)

    Interesting question and no,i dont think i have.Ive got a "other half"and hes a nice chap(usually!)but hes NOT my soulmate.The more i think about it the more opposites we are,there must be something.......But not a soulmates thing

    hi this is grandma diane  i am so glad there are the others who have found your soul mate.  i posted a comment to  the guy who said my husband was  doing it with someone his own age.  i did want to mention to him . everyone thinks he is ten yrs older than i  . and i do look like merryl streep  just  not the body any longer.    you never know what you have till its gone.  

    FISH-O

    Eggplant is a woman.
    My husband is 21 days younger than me and looks 10 years older... he is the most handsome man on earth to me.
    I don't look like Merryl Streep. I look like me.
    It's all good! :)
    Bob/PKB

    My ex husband is skinny, bald, wears glasses, and was always the most handsome man in the room in my eyes. I hope your old looking young husband is healthy.

    Yes ,we don't always agree but tha'ts life.

    Love is a many splended ,thing as the song goes,

    Yes,  He was a friend of mine in high school. I didnt like him back then he was ugly and annoying to me . Years past and we met again. We both had been thru alot by  this time and so we  both knew what we wanted and didnt want.  For some weird reason it was an almost instant attraction. like the years we were seperated never were. He was  my protector, lover, friend. He couldnt provide worth of s**t but I did and  all I really wanted was to be babyfied. And he did that. but I went to jail and the 7 yrs we were together.. we spent every day together. We lost his mother then we lost my mother then He thought he had lost me . I was coming back tho .   I had recieved a letter after his death saying he didnt want to live any more bcuz we all left him...     I love you Victor Allen Daniels  RIP  my love ..  But when I get up there you better bet you have an ass beat coming for leving me ...

    tabber

    crystalmollicat love that story.

    I always thought a soul mate had to be someone of the oposite sex. But, lately a girl who I'm like an aunt to.,.....keeps saying that her g.friend, Ashley is her soul mate. Ashley confirms it, but she's also married to a man and has two baby girls. It 's her 2nd husb. So, what gives ?

    hector5559

    No mycatsmon,you can be any sex any age,and if you are on the same wavelength,as another person,the friendship can be very strong,
    mycatsmom

    hector, thanks for the insight. I didn't know a soul mate could be just a close friend.

    Nups not yet!!



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